I am 20 yrs old and I am in love with my best friend. I don't know if she feels the same way or anything, and I don't know how to bring it up. We are always texting and complimenting each other and it seems like she likes me more than a friend, but I am still not sure. I don't know what to do about it. Any help would be appreciated.
We could tell you a million things and everyone of them be wrong. Tell her how you feel and see what she says. You might scare her so be ready to talk things out.
how about you start by telling her about yourself, or have you not already? see how she reacts and go from there..
I think it would be a mistake if you kept it inside. Harboring those feelings for a close friend without them ever knowing could cause a lot of grief and confusion later on. Personally, I think it's best to communicate these things. She may freak out but only initially if she is a true friend. Worst that happens is that she isn't interested and that you two laugh about it sometimes when talking to each other.
I fell in love with my Bestfriend, haven't spoken to Jim in 4 months? Just be prepared that things don't work out as well as if they do.
You could say something like--"I think I might be bi-sexual". That way you're not directly coming on to her and she can't really be upset about the comment if so phrased. She may well respond that she thinks she may be also. Thus:BIG TIME OPENING!! Or maybe she already knows you are--if you are. If she does--go for it right up front.
This is great advice here. I also wouldn't open up with telling her that you think you're in love with her. That would scare anyone away. Say that you find her attractive. Don't even say very attractive - just attractive. Go in easy, gauge her reaction and take it slowly. Even the best of friends who are the most gay friendly could freak out if you come on to them too hard too fast and out of nowhere.
then he probably wasn't your best friend.. i tell mine all the time that i love him, even told him once that never loved anyone else more than him (it kinda slipped out) but he still text and want to hang with me all the time.
