I'm feeling so lonely

Discussion in 'Mental Health' started by Just_a_woman, Mar 13, 2013.

  1. Just_a_woman

    Just_a_woman Member

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    Hello. It's what the title says.

    I'm feeling so down, so sad. I have this sensation of being crushed by sadness. I need to cry, sob, but I don't wanna disturb the other person in the house.

    I just wanted to know there is somebody on the other side. That I'm not alone.

    I don't wanna put you down. I'm just sad. It's OK.
     
  2. kokujin

    kokujin Senior Member

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    good luck. we are not guaranteed love. we gotta work for it, or be lucky to be surrounded by it. i dunno.
     
  3. roamy

    roamy Senior Member

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    :grouphug:
     
  4. Just_a_woman

    Just_a_woman Member

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    Thank you. :)
     
  5. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    i'll talk to you

    what part of the world are you in?
     
  6. Skop's

    Skop's Very old member, but young

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    "Everyone stands alone at the heart of the world,
    pierced by a ray of sunlight,
    and suddenly it’s evening" (Salvatore Quasimodo)
     
  7. Just_a_woman

    Just_a_woman Member

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    It feels so good to know you're all there. Thank you so much!
     
  8. Ranger

    Ranger Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    like roamy says it sounds like you need to be the center of a big group hug:grouphug:
     
  9. PEACEFUL LIBRA

    PEACEFUL LIBRA DAMN RIGHT I'M A WEIRDO

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    Pm me sometimes i'll talk to you
     
  10. GreenGreenGrassofHome

    GreenGreenGrassofHome Member

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    I went to pm OP but she isn't accepting them.

    OP, the same offer from me. PM me if you would like to vent, or just to chat
     
  11. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

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    do you want to say more about why you feel sad and lonely?
     
  12. Just_a_woman

    Just_a_woman Member

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    Thank you all very much for the messages in this thread.

    About PMs: I've checked on my "UserCP" and options. I haven't seen anything about private messages. I've been to the FAQ and tried to find there how to activate the PM feature, but didn't find it.

    I also can't go on chat, nor can I post comment on someone's page.

    Perhaps a new user only gets PM, commenting and chatting rights after a while in the forum. If that is not the case, yes, I'd like to know how to activate PM.

    Thank you again for caring.
     
  13. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    you are almost there...just make a bunch more posts and it will soon appear[pms] as well as the other options
     
  14. TAZER-69

    TAZER-69 Listen To Your Heart! Lifetime Supporter

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    I am open for talk also.
     
  15. Just_a_woman

    Just_a_woman Member

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    I've written a very long post in the "relationships" part of the forum. I explain what is hurting me so much. It is a very long post and I understand it is boring to read long posts of unhappy people. I'm just saying it exists, in case somebody has the time and inclination to read and perhaps even give me opinions on how to improve my situation.

    The post is an escape valve. I know there are no miracle solutions. I just needed to talk.

    Thank you all very much indeed for being there. It makes a difference.
     
  16. Just_a_woman

    Just_a_woman Member

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    I don't have this "enable PM" box. If I understood it well, I don't qualify for it yet.

    Thank you for your kind messages, for your "suns". :)
     
  17. Cameron007

    Cameron007 Banned

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    Hahahahaha. Really??? Are you feel so lonely. If some time i feel like that i was go to sleep or try to listen some music. But some time i want to cry. And i was. I don't know why but its happened sometime.
     
  18. Ikibah

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    Look, loneliness is a part of life for some of us. Sometimes all it takes is to get proactive about it and look for new people.
    I wish you the best of luck. I know you'll pull through this.

    Ikiba
     
  19. Just_a_woman

    Just_a_woman Member

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    You're right, Ikiba. I did look for people, here and in real life, found, and I'm my happy self again. Not only because of other people, but also because time heals. Thank you for your kind message.
     
  20. Ikibah

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    That is AMAZING to hear!
     
  21. browning

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    I've dealt with depression my whole life, from lonelyness to extreme bouts where i couldnt get out of bed and cried for hours. Please pm me i can tell you things id rather not say in public that could help please
     

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