Masculinity, Bisexuality, Male Sexual Flexibility, Grero

I've written a book that touches on bisexuality. The thesis is that most men have a bisexual potential that is suppressed by a homophobic culture. It's especially recommended reading for masculine men who have a hard time finding other masculine men.

The book is free and so is the audiobook: http://grero.com/ or https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_K0QZBsNZgwnxMdhxIqoFz9JgpweGXZW

This looks spammy, first post and all. The book is non-commercial and I want to start a conversation so I will check back here often for questions or comments. Thanks! :love:

 

ok.

 

The everybody is bi theory. Used up and tedious. So 2000s.

 

More correctly, everybody was bi fact. In many cultures outside Christendom, most men did have sex with other men. And even if it just happens in a few cultures, because humans are basically the same everywhere, it must be culture that takes away this bisexual potential.

 

You could make the opposite argument. That culture made the Romans/Greeks bisexual.

Lefties always steer the nurture vs. nature argument to justify their own preferences. If most people are straight unlike myself, then it must have been "evil society" that repressed them to be that way. If most people are bi like me, *then* it must have been natural. Boo hoo.

Ï'm bisexual, and I don't need the whole universe to be bisexual in order to feel good about myself.

 

Can culture make men grow vaginas? The point is that if culture can make men into something then that something is innately part of their nature. Even just the conclusion that men could be bisexuals is quite radically different from the current idea that the vast majority of men are biologically exclusively heterosexual.

Couldn't be further from the truth.

 

In theory, many men are bisexual. If you lift the cultural restraints and allow the men to freely express their sexuality, chances are that many men will simply go for sex where it is available. The classical cultures of Greece and Rome are the proof positive that "if left unchecked, male sexuality tends to roam freely."

The promiscuous nature of male sexuality is a result of the male evolutionary strategy. The evolutionary cost associated with sexual intercourse for male is extremely low. A guy shoots his load, and is ready to go. After a short recovery phase, he is happy to shoot his load again. The wider and further he spreads his seed the better his chances of reproduction are.

In our time and age, most men are heterosexual in practical terms. The stigma associated with being gay is still here though waning. Efficient contraception methods have made a number of women available and willing to get involved in casual sex. If given a choice, most men will take the socially approved option, and stay heterosexual for all the practical purposes, despite the fantasies they may be having.

On the other side, the waning stigma of homosexuality among men has made the notion of situational homosexuality an acceptable option for many men creating the impression that many men ARE actively bi-sexual.

In more day-to-day, practical terms, bisexuality is really a phenomenon related to the individual far more than to his/her sexual partners. Since the MMF or MFF constellation are relatively rare, for a guy having sex with another dude, his partner is homosexual. For a woman a guy is having sex with, he is str8. Frankly, why would I care if the guy, I was messing around with last night was bisexual or not? Conversely, why would he care if I am to meet my GF later on, and have sex with her, too.

KD

 

It's always bothered me that our culture has such a huge double standard regarding bisexuality. It's considered "hot" and fairly normal if 2 women make out, but the same people that get excited for 2 chicks are often disgusted by the sight of 2 gay men holding hands or kissing.

 

Chapter 4 goes into the reason why. I cite the homophobia study that not only shows that homophobic men are likely to have latent same-sex attractions but that most men period have same-sex attractions as well. The mostly subconcious anxiety over this is what causes homophobia.

 

I think everyone should fuck everyone

 

You are completely wasting your time. You dont even understand how ridiculous that sentence is

 

I think that's just a common trait amongst straight men and lesbian women. Certain people find certain things visually appealing or unappealing to look at. That's not necessarily something rooted in homophobia.

 

Never is about homophobia firstly. In his case the double standards dont exist, they just apply to him HE finds two guys kissing confronting, plenty of chics out there that will see two guys kissing, go all clucky and say stuff like "oh, thats sooo cute" - which is something very 'gay' to me. Do something sexual in front of them and they go all mothery, talk about soft on.

And with the OP, hasnt even registered that Texas might have something to do with it. He's one of those ones that are bi on the net, but likely no one in his life knows and is stratching his head as to why its so difficult to get some

As for me, getting the ones that are actually gay is fraught with difficulty solely becuase of their low numbers. But as for bi guys, I dont even really want to talk about it, cos it will just make me sound arrogant no matter how I do it. And none of it really makes any sense, its way easier than it was 20 years ago, even thought i looked better, well at least cuter then

Bi to me would be out and proud, everybody knows. Allthough if you did that youd kill any long term chances with most chics. As for married, bored, not all that fussed who sucks you off, i think that does end up being most of them.

All that and, nobody really wants to know what their dads are really getting up too

 

Yeah, I don't understand what your issue is with me. Everyone knows. I live in Houston, which isn't any worse than any other major city in the US or Europe. Online profiles show my face and that website, and there's video of me on YouTube. The fact is that there are very few masculine guys who are open about liking masculine guys because same-sex sexuality is associated with effeminacy, hence the need for grero.

 

So you really dont see what that sounds like saying stuff like that, masculine gay guys are going to assume only girly ones can be gay...seriously?

You are the one not open about liking butch guys, especially to them

 

That's bullshit can we say bullshit? Ok it's poppycock balderdash and all that good stuff. You only need to go to any gym shower like almost before closing of the gym to see masculin guy on masculin guy. Actually I rarely see a butch guy with a femmy. They usually go for each other. I dunno you had an idea for a book or whatever ur trying to do, but it's not very good and it's offensive and stereotypical and just idiotic. You seem rather glib in your understanding of sexuality.

 

I know many women who would kill to watch me suck on another mans cock, your ideas are pretty unfounded.