Been doing the dirty with my husband for the past hour. I usually only give attempts at anal when I'm intoxicated or on something. Totally sober attempt this morning went well, until about 2 inches deep. I've got to get better at this. Any suggestions on getting in deeper? Other than just biting the sheets. Feels like it may rip or its hitting a wall.
practice makes perfect. go slower, use more lube. take your time, keep at it, relax and stretch it out. try forcing a fart, itll open you up
If it goes all the way in when tipsy, ergo - it will obviously go all the way in at all times. Sunday morning .......... probably the best time for sex. The problem is most likely you being uptight and wanting a fear to realize itself - ie anal will hurt. You know you can take it all - just relax and let those endorphins take over. I know, easier said than done, but over time your fears will subside.
He should give plenty of oral back there first. Then work his pinky finger in, very slowly. TAKE PLENTY OF TIME. He should feel your breathing pattern, and time his entry into you when you exhale, just tiny amounts, giving your muscles time to adjust, stop going in when you inhale a breath.
Get him to down on you first, get number 1 all moist and excited, then let him slip it up the conventional one from behind for a minute or so (side by side), then just slip him out and place it in - make him go slow, but you should be ready for it by then. Worked for me a minute ago anyway!
I agree with Silk, you are probably stressed it's going to hurt. Just make sure you take your time and use a lot of lube. You shouldn't try it unless you're really turned on. I don't think there's a shortcut, like Jaredfelix said, practice makes perfect
This is right, if you are tense, it will hurt. I found that it helps when I am told "just relax and take it in" maybe some dirty talk might help you??
I've been trying to figure this out for days.....hello? is it me you're looking for? I wonder if this anal ever happened.....
Thats why I'm ease-say, easy like sunday morning yah https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DQAKY1ntM9o"]"Easy Like Sunday Morning" - Lionel Richie with Westlife - YouTube