me and my girlfriend are trying to find my prostate for anal stimulation the problem is we cant find it we dont feel and big round thing and nothing she touches makes me want to cum. all i can explain is you go in and feel a tight tube then you go back and it feels like everything upes wide up lots of room... but thats as long as our fingers are. so is it in the tight tube feeling part or the wide open roomy part of my butt.
Use a g spot vibrator - you'll know when it hits the right spot. You will get great sensations that will produce some precum.
Maybe this will help https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bi7eX765CSM"]The Male G Spot - Prostate Stimulation Tips for Men - YouTube
Do woman have a certain spot inside their anus that can be stimulated & gets them aroused or gives them pleasure somehow?
Aneros won't do the trick for everybody either. No one thing can. People differ in terms of capacity to experience pleasure of any magnitude from anal/rectal stimulation, as well as in where the erogenous zone, if any, is located. Even among those who can experience anal orgasms, for some the prostate is not an orgasmic trigger point at all. In some cases, the trigger point is further up on the anterior wall, or even at the junction of the rectum and sigmoid colon. And for some of us, at least some of the time, even deeper stimulation feels really good. For some (myself included) the "magic spot" moves around! I don't mean there is literally some physical structure that moves , I mean that different locations feel good enough to trigger an orgasm at different times. I tried several different Aneros models though, and never felt anything very interesting. So much for marketing hype! Sensory nerves in that part of the body are like sensory nerves anywhere else. They can transmit pain, pleasure or mere touch. Your external skin can experience these same three sensations depending on how it's stimulated. And just as skin sensitivity can vary between individuals, so can sensitivity in this area. It can also vary in the same person from time to time. Aside from your biological capacity, some keys to experiencing pleasure from anal stimulation are: 1) A relaxed, intimate setting 2) Trust between partners 3) Lubrication, lubrication, lubrication (maybe that should be 3-5) 4) The right insertable object (is it firm enough, smooth enough, right-sized, etc.?) 5) The right amount of pressure and the right stroke (hint: this varies not only between individuals, but from one session to the next, or maybe even during a session) 6) Persistence Even if you just feel something "interesting" the first few times, you'll probably eventually feel something really nice, and with the right amount of experimentation, and a positive attitude, you can probably experience orgasm or something approaching that level of pleasure. OTOH, a certain amount of motivation is involved, and if you don't experience a good deal of pleasure very easily from this activity, you might wonder why bother. I think the answer to that is completely personal. It's just as stupid to judge somebody for "failing" to experience anal pleasure as it is to judge people who do. It's nice if it works for you, but it shouldn't matter if it doesn't. Hopefully something tickles your fancy, but who says it has to be this? For me it's a pretty big deal. Even when vaginal intercourse with my wife was a routine option, I sometimes craved getting fucked by her, and if she suddenly started wanting vaginal sex again, we'd probably still have to take turns pretty often. I'm afraid I've become something of a slut. :dizzy2: BTW, I had my first hands-free anal orgasm in over six years yesterday! My wife switched from stroking the anterior rectal wall to vigorous banging against the end of the rectum, and I came within seconds! I had noticed that on that particular day things were feeling incredibly good without any genital stimulation, so I just didn't bother touching my penis. I would have, but on this occasion it just felt too good to bother! You just never know! Solano
