About 5 months ago a friend moved in with me due to losing her job and falling on hard times. I had an extra room and I told her she could stay as long as she needed to and not to worry about paying me. About a month in to staying with me she initiated sex with me. We've continued a regular pattern on sex. I don't see things going beyond a physical relationship she's really not my type. I'm not sure how to handle a piece of information I found out. Her sister told me that I got my friend pregnant. This blew me away as my friend had told me she was on birth control. What's worse is this is the 2nd time I got her pregnant the first time she had an abortion. How do I handle this? She's 24 and already has 4 kids. Do I try and convince her not to have another abortion
Tough Gig. You might want to talk to her about that and then keep the friendship hands off after that. Do her kids live with you too? And I am not sure of how close you two are or the dynamic but she might like you and maybe is trying to hold on in her own way.(not to step boundaries) I do think the Birth Control should be discussed and if and how it was un-effective . But I believe you are correct an abortion is the best for all three parties from my opinion on what you have posted.
You say she initiated sex with you yet you say she's not your type, so why have sex with her - was she missing out on it & you were the only one available?
haha, ive been told that, and found the unopened boxes still In the bag from the pharmacy, stapled still and everything, way later hahahah
lol man.. i cant even give you advice in fear that you will be too offended to take me seriously. and probably do the opposite
