Never Orgasmed

I am a 20 year old female, I ave been having sex for about 3 years now with several different partners.

I have never had an orgasm. Not through masturbation or any kind of sex.

I do not get any pleasure from touching myself, I just get bored. When I am having sex I enjoy it but do not feel much from penetration....

I have tried different positions but none of them seem to give much feeling...

I don't know what is wrong...any advice?

 

buy a vibrator


today!

 

I had one! I tried it so many times....It just wasn't pleasurable

 

Porn and rubbing your clit?

 

Yeah of course, I have tried that. Porn makes me horny but as soon as I try and touch myself i just feel nothing

 

There are many possible causes of this, from simple nervousness to some sort of medical/sexual health issue. I assume that since you have gotten a little bit of enjoyment from sex, you are able to have some sexual sensation, even if only a tiny bit. I'd say your best bet is to do whatever it takes to get that "little bit," and then experiment patiently from there. I'm sure it will get much easier after your first one.

 

You religious?

 

15-20% of women seldom or never get orgasms. This may be due to physical issues, or mental blocks preventing you from loosening up enough to free your mind to allow your body to orgasm. It really happens in your brain, not your clitoris. Try to relax, and use lube and have a friend do a lot of foreplay on you.

 

Any woman that can not have an orgasm is not trying hard enough . All of my g.f.s have one , or that is what they tell me .

 

Nope.... This is not the case, it doesn't work that way.

 

Or they're trying to hard, and the anxiety from trying to hard is counter-productive.

I still recommend the OP see a doctor or even a sexologist.

 

I guess maybe I should see a specialist. Thank you

 

I have a question for women on the subject of reaching orgasm.

Although, it's widely acknowledged reaching orgasms is as much psychological for women as it is physical, would a Hitachi magic wand from physical stimulation alone cause a woman to orgasm?

If so then perhaps that particular toy might help the OP.

 

My advice is to buy a plane ticket to my part of the planet.

I know a woman's body, any woman's body, like the back of my hand by at least the 3rd session.

Not being funny. Not joking around.

Women who have never had an orgasm, take a long time to orgasm, or don't orgasm enough, become cured once they meet me.

Just a harmless suggestion.

Carry on.