somewhere in between

It's not fucking, it's not making love. So what is it?

 

You must be more specific. Can't say without more information.

 

When you're having sex, and you don't think it's "fucking" but it also isnt "making love". What term would you use?

 

fuve..

 

^^^^^^^ lol THAT is good

 

boring sex?

 

Bonking.

 

Baby making.

 

Exercise. Burning calories. :3

 

Yes, conception and weight control. Is there a term for that?

 

Gets my vote!

 

I still think that's boring sex. If it's not the adrenaline rushing 'fucking' or the sensual 'love making,' then it's kinda boring..

..or duty sexy?

 

Getting off.

 

nah.....there's amazing pleasure in there between two people that have all sorts of good things in their relationship, but fucking is crass, and making love is not true.

 

Why label it then?
Just call it enjoyable.

 

because it's fun.....finding a term that is just right

 

I know exactly what you are getting at/meaning, but I cannot come up with a word for it either.

Along this same line Calgirl, what do you call the person you have this with......I'm currently in this dilema where I have no idea how to refer to this guy...fuck buddy sounds crass....but lover sounds too much....makes me want to pronounce it like "luva" from an SNL skit....he is a friend, but friends with benefits sounds silly.

When and I meet up, the experiece is that which is between fucking and making love......he says the first part is fucking....as it is full of that "haven't seen you in way too long" passion but the second half of our time together is totally about the feeling...its not fucking, but its not making love.

I too would be interested in finding a name/label

 

You talk so much about fucking, fuck friends. I didn't have to click on the thread to know what it was about...anyways to answer your questions, "having sex" "had sex" is always a good one.

 

Well sex is the meaning of life, after all.

 

I was expecting someone to say that, too.

*yawns*