Hi, gals! I don't care much about labels but I'm just kind of curious if there even -is- one that applies to me. I'm a femme appearance-wise and such. I dress femininely, I wear make-up, have long hair, love the color pink, and jewelry, use the word "fabulous" so much that it gets annoying ...and so on and so forth. I'm also attracted to femmes 99% of the time, but I like to be the dominant one in the relationship. I like to be the one to take care of my girl as a man (stereotypically) would, and I also like to be dominant in bed. Is there a term for this? I thought maybe it was just "dominant femme" but from what I've read, that term applies more to femmes who dominate their butch partners. Again, it doesn't really matter one way or another, I'm just curious! Thanks!
Forget labels ....... they are nothing but broad generalizations. You're YOU! Just be yourself. The only "label" you need is "insert your name"
Hi CheeryBlossom! I too, was wondering about labels the other day! In fact, just discovered (as a not-so-sure-about-my-identity gal) that there where labels to describe lesbians! LOL Here's a link that to help you sort it out : http://lesbianidentity.blogspot.ca/2009/12/lesbian-labels.html You seem like a lipstick lesbian... But like others said : why bother with labels?! Will it change your vision of yourself? Give you confidence? I, personnaly, just find them funny!