Just curious about a label

Discussion in 'Lesbian' started by CheeryBlossom, May 9, 2013.

  1. CheeryBlossom

    CheeryBlossom Guest

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    Hi, gals!

    I don't care much about labels but I'm just kind of curious if there even -is- one that applies to me.

    I'm a femme appearance-wise and such. I dress femininely, I wear make-up, have long hair, love the color pink, and jewelry, use the word "fabulous" so much that it gets annoying :p...and so on and so forth. I'm also attracted to femmes 99% of the time, but I like to be the dominant one in the relationship. I like to be the one to take care of my girl as a man (stereotypically) would, and I also like to be dominant in bed.

    Is there a term for this? I thought maybe it was just "dominant femme" but from what I've read, that term applies more to femmes who dominate their butch partners.

    Again, it doesn't really matter one way or another, I'm just curious! Thanks!
     
  2. silk896

    silk896 Member

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    Forget labels ....... they are nothing but broad generalizations.

    You're YOU! Just be yourself.

    The only "label" you need is "insert your name"
     
  3. Kahlan

    Kahlan Member

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    What she said. Absolutely.
     
  4. BeachBall

    BeachBall Nosey old moo

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    Agreed.

    Labels are for groceries, not people.
     
  5. MichelleBiss

    MichelleBiss Guest

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    Hi CheeryBlossom!
    I too, was wondering about labels the other day! In fact, just discovered (as a not-so-sure-about-my-identity gal) that there where labels to describe lesbians! LOL

    Here's a link that to help you sort it out : http://lesbianidentity.blogspot.ca/2009/12/lesbian-labels.html

    You seem like a lipstick lesbian... But like others said : why bother with labels?! Will it change your vision of yourself? Give you confidence?

    I, personnaly, just find them funny! :D
     
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