Seems to me Lube, Relax, Lube and Thrust gets the job done - (?!?) But after so long of try and fail ?? I guess the Drive is not as good without a comfortable Passenger ??
A lot of women never had it anally and have no idea what they are missing. However, it can be painful if not done properly. Preparation of her ass is important to consider. Think about how it must stretch. Maybe try rubbing baby oil or cocoa butter on her anus then use your finger to gradually build up her ability to accept larger and larger numbers of fingers until you think she's comfortable with the size. Then gently enter her. :2thumbsup:
My husband wants to have anal sex with me, but i am very nervous. Will it hurt, will I cum, will it be messy, should he cum in me there? It just seems to offer more for the man!
Jayne - have no fear. Great cums are almost guaranteed. Most women find that a bit of clit stimulation, either with finger or vibrator, makes the whole experience so much more enjoyable. Yes, I am a man so I only have 2nd hand experience, but that has been confirmed by numerous anal partners. Will it hurt? Maybe. Depends on how sensitive your partner is. Cum in or out? Most like it inside where they can savor the pulsing and throbbing of their partner's dick, however if we are going out afterwards my wife asks for the "porn star cum" whereby I squirt on the outside which reduces the incidence of embarrassing cum farts later. Try a search for your concerns. There is lots of good advice on this site. "Don't make a fuss. Just get on the bus." Frank Zappa - Joe's Garage pt 1
I don't know if I enjoyed it, even though I had very powerful orgasms. My husband probably won't give me much choice whether I do it again though!
It's obvious that you enjoyed it from the multiple orgasms. A little bit of pain and a lot of pleasure tend to produce powerful orgasms in women from what I've noticed.
I'd venture to guess that very few female "enjoy" anal. I bet the majority tolerate it, but "enjoy" it, probably not.
I love anal play like rimjobs and a little bit of fingering but usually I don't like anal. Tried it twice, the first time I thought it was too painful, but the second time I was drunk and I actually enjoyed it! I try to keep the hope alive in my boyfriend since he loves it so much lol!