confused by sexuality? or something?

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by thecolorofsleep, Jun 4, 2013.

  1. thecolorofsleep

    thecolorofsleep Guest

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    Clearly this isnt a very active forum but I figured i would make a thread anyway.
    So I have had my decent share of boyfriends and girlfriends. I can 100% say i think both males and females are adorable and i love both but when it comes to sexual things I want absolutely nothing to do with either gender? like the thought of touching them sexually makes me feel gross? i dont know. What are your thoughts?
     
  2. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    Asexual?
     
  3. BeachBall

    BeachBall Nosey old moo

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    So don't think about it. And don't plan to do it.

    Any true friend will respect your feelings and wishes.

    Maybe, one day, when you're with the right person things will escalate and it will happen anyway and you'll be comfortable with it. Maybe it won't.

    Getting yourself in a tizzy over it won't help, though ... so try not to :)
     
  4. nox_lumen

    nox_lumen Member

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    Is it that you have no interest in sexual stimulation, or is it simply that you don't feel comfortable with sexual stimulation involving another person?

    If masturbation is ok but sex is not, perhaps you should take a closer look at why you hesitate on becoming intimate with another person.
     

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