Does it have to be either or? My wife and I were discussing this exact thing today after a nice loooong and vigorous session of carnal delight. We mix it up and just do what seems right at the moment, fingers, tongue, cock, thumb, nose, toy, it's all good. She does love the fingers as much as the cock because she said the orgasms are completely different. With the fingers I can focus on particular spots for different sensations and perform maneuvers that my cock can't. Sorry, but my cock just isn't jointed so it can wiggle and trace circles, thump, tap, pinch, etc. But then again my fingers don't swell up bigger and bigger when I'm going to cum like my cock does. That tends to put her over the edge as well. Bottom line it's all about knowing your partner and responding to their cues, master that and any body part can bring your lover to ecstasy. :2thumbsup:
For me, fingers feel SOOOO much better than dicks. No idea why, but a guy could go from fingering me to fucking me and the pleasure levels would go from sky high to flatlining. Penetration doesn't feel bad or good to me, but fingers feel amaaazing. Then again, I'm pretty sure something's wrong with my body so don't mind me
I like fingers but just one feels like a damn tampon in there haha, like 3 or 4 is good, and then bring on the penetration with the dick. It feels faaaabulous. or maybe some cock penetration with the clit being fingered at the same time....that is like heaven to me
The finger can go into the vagina & then can be curled downwards while inside & then touches diferent areas just inside the vagina to see what they feel like. Try putting an erect penis in & then curling it in half.
I sometimes wonder if the shape and feel of the penis should have evolved other features and characteristics to be more target area specific to pleasure the female. But I guess evolution didn't work out that way since offering sexual pleasure to the women of the species wasn't the prime factor for survival before those genes/abilities could be passed on.
monkjr: For example: A penis designed with a lot of raised bumps the entire length of it with different sizes of bumps for better effect when penetrating
Man, I love the sound of that! For me, I like both, but dick wins! I don't feel "finished" if I don't have penile penetration.
i do my wife fingering she loves it very much and get to orgasm sooner . but one must know how do it and moves his or her long finger inside the vagina.