I have this weird 'issue' with my sexual tendencies. I'm a younger guy, and only have been sexually involved with two girls. My first partner of two years and I were very active sexually, but my issue is I can't enjoy or really get into sex without anal play. For example, if I'm having sex I can't finish or enjoy it fully without some sort of anal play such as fingering, rubbing or placing my finger on there. Its really, really odd. My first girlfriend absolutely loved it when I messed with her down there and it was amazing, but my current girlfriend is very hesitant with it and does not seem to like anything involving anal play which makes me not enjoy sex too much. Should I ask her about it? What do you girls think of anal play before/during sex? 3 hours ago - 4 days left to answer.