Do women like sex toys? She's now feeling the vibrations

I've always hated, detested the idea of using sex toys! Sex is about having his head between my legs, feeling his wet tongue flick inside me. Men seem to love the idea of them: vibrators, bum plugs (BUM PLUGS?) and whips. So what are the best sex toys, and ... what's the best way to play?
Jill

 

well, if sex to you is him giving you oral sex and then going home to masturbate, of course he loves the idea of a piece of plastic doing the job for him.

 

and keep that way your thinking . i had a gf once she used a lot dildo and other stuff . and sometimes become problem for me she didnt had many orgasm . i got very mad . we broke up and after some months she visited her doctor . the problem was and many women should take this serious . USING A DILDO OR VABRATORS MAKE TE WOMAN FEEL LESS AND LESS THE PENIS . THE VAGINAL WALL AND CLIT LOOSE THE SENSATION OF FEELING . THEY GET DAMAGED . AND IT CAN NOT HEALED .

 

I'm asking this as I saw on a forum that post-menopausal women's clitoris's and vulvas are much more delicate, and drier, than those of younger women, and the skin is much thinner, so they should take great care not to damage the delicate tissues when using a vibrator.


This has got me thinking: has any research been done to ensure the safety of vibrators for older women, or are they aimed solely at the young? I Love Sex :devil:

 

I love toys! And I've heard all the warnings about loss of sensitivity. Its definitely NOT true for me. I still cum just as easy with the touch of a man even when I regularly use toys in solo play.

 

My wife's vagina usually needs lube applied before sex as she's in the menopause stages. I like the sloshing sound it makes when I put lube in her & twist my fingers around inside her vagina.

 

My man doesn't touch my clit, so, I use a toy. I've already told him his hand would feel much better, but he was unfazed by the invitation. And a penis feels very good, but it doesn't make me orgasm.

I always find it very telling when people start rumors about things that help women have pleasure. It is also a matter of ignorance to think a penis is enough. Perhaps that's why a huge percentage of women never have orgasms with a partner. Also, so many women go off sex and men wonder why. Well, perhaps they just lose interest in sex without a real orgasm.

The thing about losing sensitivity is a rumor. I'm still waiting for scientific research on the subject. What I can talk about is personal experience, even though that's not scientific at all. My personal experience, for what is worth, is that when men fail to deliver, a toy is a woman's best friend. And men often "forget" to deliver.

Women should seek pleasure anyway they can and completely ignore people who are against it. Stop nursing male insecurities.

There is excision of clit in lots of countries. In western countries, there are these rumors and male insecurities, jealousy of a thing that can give women what they often fail to provide.

Go on, people, be proud of spreading ignorance all around you! And when you get married and she wants sex once every third year, wonder why.

 

In general, men who think their dicks are the best toys available are the ones whose dicks are... available. Men who know better have women available who wanna fuck them and we have to queue for the honor.

I know you meant it as a joke!

I just wanted to say it to the ones who think like that and aren't joking about it. Believe me, there are lots of men who seriously think their cocks are enough.

 

I hate sex toys. They do absolutely nothing for me. Nothing beats the real thing.

I had a dream my mom bought me a vibrator. It looked very dick-like. Creepy.

 

Sold.

 

My comment really wasn't meant to you! You know that!! If that's how it looks, I apologize. Shame on me!!!!

*that's my cue to bend over and offer my arse for a good spanking... just saying!!!!*

 

I personally love sex toys. I've used pretty much everything. And find them all great, I mean its even hot when my boyfriend uses them on me and he finds it hot too. I personally love the flexible jelly like vibrators and cock rings. Every girl should try these ones in their life you may enjoy.

 

I'm lost for words, Willy. Thank you so much for the positive stroke. I'm sure I'd be the lucky one. If from far, over the net, with all the background noise and all, you can make me feel so good, so sexy, so hot as you've just done, I can only wonder how you'd make me feel if you were close.

That's an art. A man who can make a woman feel this good about herself, is a man who will experience the best in her. You know? Give them some sunshine and flowers will bloom.

Today, you were my sunshine.

 

:cheers2:

be in my bed waiting for me to get home from work

 

good, be naked and do that glow in the dark thing so my mouth can find you.

 

That turned me on ._.

 

Some woman just prefer natural male sex organs than substitute types.
Unless they are not involved with a guy & need that extra stimulation & excitement & just have to use sex toys that can only achieve what they can out of them.