Idk about anyone else but my boyfriend finds squirting hot and I mean i cant really deny the fact that i personally enjoy it to. We do watch porn when having sex once in a while and we both find it hot when a girl can squirt. I know that most girls are born with this and can't really explain why they can do it but I was wondering if there is any way that a girl that never did it before can do it now? Like is there a way that my boyfriend can make me squirt? If that is even possible? Veryyyy curious!
i find that when during sex you get like folded up like twisted and contorted and then he presses on your pelvis you squirt
I tried to get my wife to squirt for years. I had all but given up hope and as luck would have it a few weeks ago she finally squirted. There is lots of info on the internet. Read up on it and find out what works for you. Now that she has accepted that she can squirt and not have to pee, it's a kicker to realise we were so close so many times. Infact the other night she stopped me because she "had to go pee" she went to the washroom but couldn't pee. Within a minute of coming back to bed she was gushing all over. Lay some towels down unless you like changing sheets and sleeping in a wet spot. And let your BF know what is working for you and what is not. He has to learn too. Happy squirting - yes it is awesome.
Yeah, the "feeling like you have to pee" is very intense....my parter tried a couple of times before it finally worked and the issue was also me being too afraid of peeing. I researched it and he assured me, its not pee, and I would always empty my bladder before we'd even try just so I could be doubly sure...lol.....once it finally happened it was great.....and we've done it lots since.
Once you start, there's no stopping. My first squirt experience was probably back early this year. Now with partners I squirt a lot regularly. It can begin as a trickle, and with the climax, it really gets messy. Definitely use towels. Squirting for me happens more easily with finger fucking. If I relax, really get into the sensation, and feel myself contract, the juices push to get out. I think the main thing is to let the orgasm build. You'll feel yourself get very wet, let it get intense, and then when you climax, it comes out in gushes. These days I can have them with penetration too as long as the penis size and curve fits well. Again, it's about letting it build.
It is very real and I am not so sure about being born with it! I think a lot more woman would do it if they would just let themselves! As others have said when you have that peeing sensation, but you don't have to pee let it go. With my lady once she did it for the first time there was no turning back. As far as what act will help it happen it really depends on the woman. My lady is lucky enough to be able to squirt from both clit and g-spot stimulation.
It happens. Just give it time. There is a boat load of "how to's" on the net. However technique appears to be only half the battle. Don't get over anxious. Lower your expectations and enjoy what happens regardless. And one day the Squirt Fairy may just visit you when you least expect it ......... and it will blow your mind! (as well as making the sheets wet!!! )
I tried to make my wife squirt one night & told her if it felt like something was going to occur, just to let it happen but she made me stop & I never were able to get her to experience it. I were possibly trying to force her to try it thou. Maybe sometime again I may get her to actually squirt & not to have her stop me stimulating her at all until it happens.
I have found it much easier since I gave birth - think everything just shifted about a bit inside. It's definitely easier with a finger or two, but if the man's on top and the woman has 2/3 pillows underneath her bum, tilting the pelvis to a different angle, that works really well. ;-)
That's usually the reaction I get from women. That or hysterical laughter. Some even gag. It happens. :2thumbsup:
I usually don't rely on anything from the mainstream porn industry when it comes to sex education, but Nina Hartley has done some very educational work that I personally feel is also credible. Some of this includes her talking about, and demonstrating(albeit through another model) the female ejaculation. She says a woman needs to first become "internally erect", and I think this is a very useful piece of information. The woman may need to be stimulated the certain way(I suspect this may vary depending on the individual) for the ejaculate fluids to fill up within her. However, I still maintain a belief that the first step to take is the achievement of emotional/psychological peace when it comes to the whole perception of squirting. Psychotherapist Lisa Lawless of Holistic Wisdom has also produced a documentary/educational film on female ejaculation, and this peaceful state of mind aspect, when first attempting to squirt, is the area that she emphasizes as well.
Every time I'm with my new fuck friend (about weekly), he makes me squirt. He really likes it. And the whole female erection thing is a good point. It'll happen when I'm engorged, and then if the cock is getting super hard, it's magic. This guy fits in me so well .... we can't get enough.