Wife of 5yrs went from frigid to freak over night!

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by oldpaddy, Jul 1, 2013.

  1. oldpaddy

    oldpaddy Guest

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    Hi all, I just wanted to share my story.
    I was a happily married man, but now I'm a REALLY happily married man!
    My wife (36yrs old and I'm 34) used to really disappoint me in bed. Many I nights I went to bed frustrated, sad, angry and horny in our relationship. I'd huff, puff and almost cry some nights. This went on almost every night for 5yrs. My wife was into just regular boring sex. No anal, nothing freaky, no bjs, not one thing even remotely fun other than missionary and doggy. This was pretty much true from day one of the relationship. Since we met we've gone through a lot of stress and have had two children (3yrs and 4mths old).
    About a month ago everything changed. We had an argument before I left for work. Later in the day I felt bad and I started texting her apologies. As a joke I texted her a few pics of naked men doing housework. To my surprise she liked them and wanted more! This had never happened before. Next thing I know I'm scouring the net for cock pics to send her lol
    I'm not into cock, but her liking them turned me on. From there it quickly turned into me discussing my fantasies with her. One of which was a mfm 3some.
    Within two weeks of me sending the pics of cock, we've had a mfm 3some, joined aff and are actively searching for males and couples for us! She's talking dirty to strange men (which excites me for some reason), and has truly found her inside freak! Anal sex and play was always out of the question, now she's enjoying a finger in her ass! I just ordered a butt plug and a vibrating cock ring. With her blessing! Amazing!!
    Is it the mid 30's female sexual peak or something else? She had her tubes tied after our most recent baby and now is off the pill, could it be because she's off the pill?
    Whatever it is doesn't matter, I'm the happiest man on earth!
    I NEVER would've imagined a month ago that I'd be writing this today.
    God I love my wife :-D
     
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  2. LatinoHeat

    LatinoHeat Member

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    Congratulations man, she's a keeper. I don't think it has nothing to do with her tubes tied, I could be wrong though. My wife is 36 but she wasn't very kinky when we met obviously because we were teenagers but she's always had a very kinky sexual side to her, it started to come out when she was in her early 20's. we pretty much like to push our boundaries with experimenting and having new sexual experiences. Trust me, this will always be a good thing in our relationship. That is a pretty crazy story though, how did you meet the other participant,lol we have had mild 3somes but never full on like intercourse.
     
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  3. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    Re: teenage years , I bet there are teenagers that do a lot more kinky things these days compared to what was unheard of 30 + years ago.
    And more sexual types of acts have become more acceptable than before.
    Sex toys have been introduced in a variety of different styles over the years.
     

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