Gaah! Grrr! Letting steam out! It's freaking strange to be bisexual.. I have pretty much come to terms with it at this point.. But one day it's Men, the next day its Women I like (well.. more men then women usually..) The annoying part is just that my head does not seem to understand Bisexualty? When I am attracted to a Man, I think:"Oh, I must be gay" And when I then think about a girl, that kinda confuses it again. Does this ever stop? Or am I gonna be in this roller coaster forever?
I can't speak to it from a guy's perspective, but from a female perspective, at least in my experience up to this point, I experience it more as a kind of different level of attraction to everyone. I lean more toward women than men, for example. And it's stayed kind of the same really since I first recognized it (in my early teens). Maybe you should learn to recognize it as a legitimate attraction to both, rather than as a one day you're gay, the next you're not kind of thing. I also don't see it as a hindrance in any way, but rather as having more options than straight people.
“Bisexuality immediately doubles your chances for a date on Saturday night.” ― Woody Allen it's got to be kinda really weird in the beginning
very true - it's great to have a choice - to size up people attractive to u whatever their sex. Relax OP - and enjoy the options. Simon :sunny:
I think it helps to accept that you don't have to be gay or straight. Sexuality is not a magnet with two distinct poles, it is not black and white. Some people are very much a shade of grey, some even vary that shade at times. The trick is to be comfortable in what you are.
Maybe not to late, you are truly bisexual. You are living a bisexual's nightmare. One day you are she is so hot, but the next day omg I would like to do him? You need to look into your soul and accept who you are and say "I am a bisexual." Coming out to yourself is the first step in accepting that you are BI. Carry on with your feelings and never feel guilty or ashamed of who you are. Coming out to others is up to you, such as family and friends. This is the hardest step, trust me been there and done that. This is totally up to you if you want others to know, more than usual BI'S keep to themselves, because most of the population just doesn't understand why we can LOVE either a woman or a man the same. Good luck.
I doubt the OP is coming back, so this question goes to others as well: Are you repelled by women on the days you want men? And repelled by men on the days you want women? That sort of happens to me. To add to the confusion, I can be both sexually and emotionally attracted to both genders, but it's not even. It's much more sexual with women, and much more emotional with men. I really would like a boyfriend for a stable partner, and to go through women like a hot knife through butter. That's what my body asks!
I'm just the opposite Cherea - want a stable female partner and to go thru guys like a hot knife thru butter! :sunny: Simon :sunny:
Hi! let me draw your atention to the definition of Bisexual: person sexually attracted to both male and female- If you are like men and women and define yourself as bisexual, why is bisexuality confusing???!!! You don´t have to be attracted equally to both genre, nor date boths genres alike, nor fell in love or have sexual relations with men or women to be bisexual. I realised I was bisexual when I was 23 because i realized i felt attracted sexually to some actresses but haven´t bed any girls yet not felt for anyone "real" I´ve been in a relationship with a woman for the past six years and at the moment i don´t really consider the idea of dating a man again, but i feel attracted to some, should I consider myself a lesbian hetero-curious?... No. I define myself as a monogamous bisexual and assume i can fall in love with any of the genres, that´s all. It´s not confusing, you are young and sexually very active, you have all the world to discover and many people to meet. Be concerned about meeting somebody that makes you happy and forget about questioning yourself
Yeah it is so confusing! One sec I like pussies then later I will be checking out men. I am more attracted to men but some women can get me too. It surprised me one day a butch lesbian got my attention whoa! But I find it confusing. If I feel confused and sometimes don't want to have either a gf or a bf because it seems like I will always want both and feel unfaithful.
I'm like Si, I'm more emotionally attracted to women. I don't think I'm capable of falling in love with a man but find them sexually attractive. I want a girlfriend as a stable partner, and to go through men like a hot knife through butter! Cherea, I didn't know you were bisexual. Since when?
