"Kitten" is always nice I think. I get the impression my girl likes "cute puppy", too. But I understand that isn't the opposite of "cougar", lol. xD
Kitten is one of them, although that sounds weird to me since it's a baby cat. There is also: Baby panther (also weird to me) Gerbil (from SNL skit) Eagle Scout and Molly (opposite of a tomcat, which is a younger guy who goes after cougars)
"Baby panther" sounds like a relative of "cougar cub", so I can see that being one of them. But, I don't get where they got "Eagle Scout" and "Molly" from, lol. By the way, to my understanding, the term "tomcat" could be used as an alternative to "playboy" more than anything else. Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong here.
I'm 4 years older than my fiance'. My friends call me a cougar, but that is bloody ridiculous. Its not like I'm ten years older Lol...
That IS ridiculous, a 4 year age difference is nothing! That was the age difference with my last physical ex. Let's say if a guy was 29 and his partner was 25, then there's no way the dude could be considered a cradle robber. Reverse the situation, and the same thing applies.
I like older men. The sex is almost always much better. They know how to use the hands and mouth for nice orgasm. They are more attentive and enjoy to please me. Younger men have little experience and not caring about my orgasm.
With me, it's more emotional than physical, though, physically I DO prefer the youthful appearance as well. For some reason, probably because I'm generally youthful in terms of my outlook on life and such, I've always connected better with younger people where romance is concerned. It's interesting...... lol
Would you agree that some young guys that just have intercourse with their partners don't bother taking time to pleasure them the way they want to as well & once the guy orgasms, that's it over & done with till another time. Some of us older generation tend to spend more time at foreplay to make our partner feel more turned on & when they feel the urge to go to the next stage, they let their partner know somehow. Rushing sex is only if you have little time to spare & just want to get it over & done with as soon as possible. The more time you spend pleasuring your partner before having intercourse, the more they will like you taking the time to show you how they not only like their body but give it some attention in an unrushed way.
I get called this too - but you will be the one laughing when all their partners turn the big 4-0 and your fella will still be only 36 My partner is also 4 years younger than me.
I was thinking of a 20 year age difference. The vitality some younger women have is what attracts me.
One thing I really enjoy with my current partner is that I can be completely honest with her. Our big age difference is one of the factors that actually bring us closer, and we communicate incredibly well. She is definitely one of the few people who actually understand me, and this is very comforting.
I'm definitely not rich either, but that doesn't stop my Significant Other from finding me to be a desirable romantic partner. In fact, none of the inter-generational relationships I've personally witnessed so far have been money-driven.
One never wants to see themselves as OLD, though I will settle for OLDE and I do have an attraction for Young(er) Girls I find that Youth (in Mind and Body and Soul) can provide both a Mental and physical stimula for ones Life force, Life style and Life span - their innocence = something to be guardian to/for, their stamina = an enjoyable challenge
I recently starting seeing an older man, non-exclusively and pretty much just for sex. I am 28, and he is around 57 or 58. He's not very well-built but he's healthy, he has a great attitude and sense of humor, and he's divorced which somehow makes me feel like he appreciates me in a way that is simple, straight, and honest. I met him at a local Nugget store as I was browsing some produce, and he started to give me his thoughts on what makes good asparagus good, and was joking about the turgidity of the celery (yes, turgidity, dear gosh, lol!). I was actually kind of amused, maybe because I was having a good day, was in no rush, and didn't mind a brief chat while doing something that can at times be rather mundane. He then came on with a very light flirtation, wanting to mention how beautiful he found me to be, and seemed not very shy to say he thought I had a very nice body. I'm not very bashful, but I did kind of blush because it was unexpected, and I thanked him (had NO idea what else to do!) and also thanked him for his produce thoughts and the good advice. Rather than let me go though, he asked if I was having dinner alone, and invited me for a home-cooked meal nearby. That should be the stranger danger alert, but I was actually very surprised and kind of astonished at his forward yet non-aggressive nature. I suggested a raincheck on dinner, but he insisted that he'd probably either never see me again (out of sheer luck) or would spend his days hanging around the Nugget just for a glimpse of me. What can I say, I thought he was charming, it wasn't very late in the day (this was a few months ago while the sun was pretty high), and I was intrigued, as I said. So I said we could make something together (it ended up being pasta; yes, spoiler alert, because that's not the spicy part of this story). So we went to his place which was literally around the corner in a nice neighborhood not far from my own (he doesn't know where I live at this time, and he hasn't asked). While mixing sauces and cooking, he would gently touch me in ways that were so subtle, yet so erotic, like brushing his hand across my back, or "accidentally" brushing his hand around my breast or buttocks. I was in tight shorts because it was pretty hot, so it felt almost like his fingers were touching my skin... We had wine with dinner, and sat on the floor where he'd tell me about being a single divorced man living his dream of doing anything he wanted yet only wanting to stay in town and see the local sights. He'd caress my leg, my foot, my thigh, and at some point he leaned in and just started kissing me while sliding his hand up my pant-leg, under my panties, and caressing my pussy and clit..... I was COMPLETELY seduced by this man, he had slid all my clothes off while expertly undressing himself, which made me wonder how many women he'd seduced, dug out a condom from around the table, and after I stroked him to a nice hard erection and slid the condom on, he slid his cock slowly into me and sexed me slow at first. It was INCREDIBLY hot, and I don't mean the weather, though that helped make us both sweaty. He fucked me slowly, and I bit his ear and scratched his back, then whispered to him that he could go faster if he wanted. As if waiting for his cue, he thrust in me HARD, I moaned, and he started fucking me fast and furious. I was sooo loud, and he was holding on to me so tight while fucking me missionary; then I rode him cowgirl and started wondering if he'd have a heart attack, but I feel like he's in better shape than I am. He eventually finished me off in a doggystyle position, I feel like he was doing his best not to cum before I did but he may not have realized that I had already cum twice before he finished. And that was how I met this man who is 30 years older than me, and INCREDIBLE in bed. We've been having sex regularly for a couple months now, and I appreciate how there is nothing deceptive about what we're doing, it's all on the table. he is definitely the oldest man I've had sex with, beating out the second-oldest by close to 20 years, yet somehow he's one of my favorite partners. he just "gets it," he gets ME, and what I want/desire, and he's not a jerk. Sometimes sex with a jerk can be hot - I've shared a confession about an internet guy who's sexed me a few times - but a much older sex partner - or at least the man I've been meeting with - is very hot indeed.
I like dating older guys. I feel like they have more to offer intellectually, sexually, and other things as well. Although I have had problems where they felt like criticizing me because they had that 'older therefore wiser' mentality with me. I have a live it to learn it approach to life so I like finding things out for myself, not being told or guided. Bottom line is having too big of an age gap could cause problems because you are at two different stages in your life but at the same time there is so much positive that could come out of having that gap as well. Just my opinion, to each there own though.