Girl of my dreams but zero sex drive

I am with the girl of my dreams and I want to spend all my time with her but there is no desire to even hold her hands.

I had a very high libido before meeting her but now I have zero sex drive. Any reasons why ?

 

Just because she is the girl of your dreams does not mean you have good chemistry together.

 

It's possible.

If she's the girl of your dreams, psychologically you might be putting her on a pedestal in your mind, resulting in intimidation which is killing your sex drive for her.

Or you just lack chemistry or something is medically wrong as suggested above.

Perhaps she's a kindred spirit, but not a lover...emotionally close but not sexual.

Use process of elimination, and you'll figure it out.

 

My Guess Would Be It's Because "Obvious Troll, Is Obvious"...:troll:



Cheers Glen.

 

I once did hold her hand but it was so overwhelming I dropped it within 3 seconds

 

My libido was never affected before I met her, so I dont see a health problem

or a mental problem because

she makes me feel like I am in heaven every time I am with her

 

I am pretty sure we have good chemistry because I make her laugh and she makes me feel like I am in heaven

 

When she is not around, my libido is back to normal,

only when she is around does my libido drop like a stone

and yet I want to spend all my free time with her and only her

 

I definitely put her on a pedestal, I can't even imagine her using the bathroom.

I tried holding her hand one time but it was so overwhelming, I had to drop her hand after 3 seconds

 

I never felt like this before

and in fact whenever she is not around, I have tried watching porn to test my libido and I know my libido is there somewhere

but I cant concentrate on the porn and I keep thinking about her all the time

 

Walk away there is something wrong!

 

She is going to break your nuts and fuck your life.
manipulative , cock teaser!

 

she has that power of you.

 

I am obsessed with her, cant walk away

 

so far she has made me a better man,

I am not thinking about sex all the time

and I can concentrate on work, in fact, we work together on projects a lot.

I have got her to work on projects with me, just to be with her as much as possible

 

I think she is not from earth, i cant even imagine her using the bathroom

 

Your attitude will change as you leave Jr high. Corrective action is not easy for a 12 year old.

 

Hold up, are both of you still in school or in the workforce or in college?

Please clarify more about yourself because my advice and commentary is better the more I know about the OP.


My advice is to get her out of the mental pedestal, and get to know her as a person.

Is she your first experience with the opposite gender?

 

Your going to regret meeting her.

 

I met her when she was 12, but she is 16 now