Anal advice please.

I believe it's her rectal valves but I'm pretty sure that means the colon is right behind them. Deep enough anal will get you that far in. I love doing it to my wife. The cum stays in there too since the valves hold it back or something like that. I know, TMI, but that's how it works.

Of course, occasionally, it might just be poop that we hit up there, lol

Are you sure though? With doggy style, I can feel my wife's second sphincter open or whatever's up there. I can get deeper. Pretty sure it's her colon that I'm just poking into.

 

You're the best. I only like to fuck in the ass on occasion but my boy loves it all the time. Ass is a good way to switch it up from time to time but pussy is the best to me.

 

My lady has incredible control of her external anal sphincter. While it's tight as ever, she can relax it at will. Her internal anal sphincter, being autonomically controlled, requires a little time with constant gentle pressure with a circular motion to admit my glans. Be sure to lube inside as well as outside the anal canal.

 

Yes I believe it's the valves. I love it when I get that far, usually only when she has her climax as that causes all the involuntary muscle spasms which shorten the length of the rectum.

 

It's like that for me too but slightly different. It only hurts when he's pushing on my asshole and trying to get it in and there's this strong resistance. Then suddenly it pops in and it's fine. Then he fucks me with the first few inches of his cock and gradually puts it in deeper and deeper.

It only hurts if the guy is in too much of a rush to get his whole cock into me, we don't use enough lube, or he's just clumsy and doesn't watch his angle of penetration. After only a few minutes of fucking he can fuck my asshole as hard and as fast as my ****.

I have anal orgasms too but I wouldn't say they are more intense than clitoral orgasms. ( I've never had a vaginal orgasm) but they certainly are different.

I have a craving for a big cock too but I've never been game. I've found with the wrong guy anal sex can be very painful and I'd hate to think what it would be like with the wrong guy with a massive cock. I actually prefer a smaller cock for anal sex. I went out with a guy once, an older guy, who had the smallest cock I've ever encountered. 4 inches long and no more than 3/4" thick. But Oh God it felt good up my ass. I could get on top of him and ride him as hard as I liked. Funny thing was this tiny cock of his was apparently very sensitive and he used to complain my ass was too tight and it hurt. (I used to think "toughen up bitch" and just kept riding him) He had super-sensitive balls to and every time I touched them he almost flew up to the celing. Hahaha. And he gave the best head, orgasm after orgasm and he actually loved doing it. Maybe compensating for his tiny cock. Guys are so fucking strange.

The only thing I don't like about anal sex is this awful feeling I get like I am going to shit myself. I don't know if it's just me or this is quite normal. I have to actually tell myself that I am NOT going to shit myself and then the feeling passes.

I'd just DIE if I ever did. Hahaha

My current boyfriend has this thing when we are having anal sex that feels fantastic. After we've been doing it a while he gets me to stand up and bend over. He puts it in all the way, and straightens me up by pulling my shoulders back while pushing up as hard as he can. Not actually fucking me, just pushing his cock up.

I've never actually felt my asshole suck a cock in though. ?

 

No one will feel happy from being fucked up the ass...no matter how good it is.. there will always be a vague echoe saying that what you are doing is wrong and degrading to yourself!

 

No, there is evidence for this at all.

What you are doing here is mistakenly projecting your own values and beliefs on to everyone else, thinking that the way you think must be universal.

 

This is the most ridiculous bullshit I've ever read. How many anal whores should I count who will adamantly disagree with this statement?

 

anal "WHORES"? you mean you like paid them? I thought you keep telling us you're so awesome, why would you be paying?

anyway, ridiculous grammar aside, what Laura said is even stupider. While I agree there's something that tells me sometimes my body doesnt want something in me when its really really big (ahem it just happens when I lose concentration for a second relaxing, then all the sudden my internal muscles are trying to push it out like going to the loo... I find it thrilling to try and control that urge, and let it inside But thats only with toys at my limit....

 

I do. No vague echo at all.

 

That's my size,,,,are you sure you're not talking about me? :2thumbsup:

 

Pretty sure. She was a thieving bitch.....

 

HAHA...yeah, not me...

 

Truthfully speaking sometimes anal hurts my dick too but I just keep going, oh the fuck well. It makes your dick sore because the ass is nice and tight, that's the whole reason we do it. A nice tight ass can easily make your dick sore but the pleasure definitely out weighs the pain.

Sometimes my wife's butt is sore after a long anal session but she says it's worth it for the orgasms.

If you can't stand the heat, get outta the kitchen.

 

That tight after stroking in and out, even in those long sessions? Seems unlikely - she should probably start relaxing after a bit, once the inner sphincter is stimulated with something in it, as I understand most women (if not all humans...) do. Mostly once I get going its like fucking me up front Tho not super loose, just comfortably tight for everyone.

If its under a certain size and I've lubed up, I can go for a long time. That size has increased as I've found larger partners and worked on stretching and relaxing. Takes patience and lots of time (like weeks or months)

 

It's true the but does relax after a few moments of anal but the constant stroking in and out for an hour or so can still make me or my lady a little sore.

She usually gets sore if we do a second round of anal in one night.

 

how long's a round? what determines the bell ringing the end of the round? You get off or she does? just curious how it works with others.

 

That's one of the great joys of anal - not too slack, nor too tight, but perfect. Never got sore myself either.

 

Speak for yourself.

 

This was some time ago, but I think I'd meant to quote Triple Ace instead which puts a slightly different reading on it (he said he sometimes got sore).