Girl of my dreams but zero sex drive

she is in school, she is 16 and I am her neighbor, working for an author ( home business ).

I am her first experience since she got to know me when she was 12 years old

but I have had many girlfriends in the past whom I was very sexual with

 

so far after four years, things are looking up, what do you think might happen ?

 

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Feck me dealin with a child.

 

How old are you? (You dodged this question)

Let her grow up a bit first, and if you still think something is there ask her out. But avoid sexual stuff until she's legal, it'll be less of a headache for you.

If you yourself are young, being nervous around the opposite gender, especially a crush, is completely natural just try to calm down, realize that the mythic "perfect girl" is not real and just be a good person to her, but not a doormat.

Ladies have told me that it can be stressful when a guy puts them on a pedestal, because they feel that they're not always interacting with another person on a date, but rather some kind of clingy fanboy.

Other not so nice ladies, in my opinion, exploit being put on a pedestal, but I avoid making friends who do this.

 

off topic

if you are smoking hash (not saying that you are) but if you do you should stop it because hash lowers your sex drive

 

I doubt a child has a perfect body. She has an hour glass shape with perfect legs, round tight butt, very slim waist.

She works out with me in my home gym and i can see that she has perfect natural breasts too (34B) because her sports bra is pretty flimsy and very tight, so you can pretty much see the outline of her breasts and nipples,

As for how I know its 34B, read my previous post

 

I am 35 and one time she was wearing a pretty short dress and standing right beside me while I sat on the stairs

and I know she was trying to get my reaction while talking about school stuff.

But all I could think of is , I am the luckiest guy in the world to have her talking to me

and I was not even tempted to see under her dress because that is how short the dress was

 

I am like President Clinton; one time, just to please my friends, I put it to my mouth but did not inhale.

Also, I stopped drinking four years ago when I met Jessie, my neighbor.

She has made me a better person

 

Just keep in mind that girls her age, do tend to get off on teasing guys, and just leave it at that. It's their first real experience at flexing the power of their femininity and flirtation. Don't misread the signs for genuine interest unless she flat out tells you she likes you romantically. It's highly possible she sees you as an older brother figure and not as a romantic interest at all, and her clothing choices might just be the style of showing skin that's been the trend these last 12 years.

However, if you genuinely like her as a person and she's open to a relationship when she's 18, go ahead and go for it. Just respect her decision always whether it's a yes or a no to a relationship/sexual activity. Relationships have had bigger age gaps, so in time this isn't a super big deal long term, just short term.

It's also possible that your subconscious is nervous around her because of this age gap, or perhaps you don't like her romantically and just think you do but appreciate her beauty, like one would appreciate a piece of beautiful artwork.

Q: Are you actually in a relationship with her or is this just a fantasy in your head?

 

You're the only one that can answer this and you have to be honest with yourself. Are you intimidated? Are you idolizing her? Is the sex not good? Are you not pleasing her in bed? Do you feel like the relationship will fail? Do you just prefer being friends with her?

You better figure it out fast, because if she is not getting what she needs, she'll be gone sooner or later. If she's low sex drive, maybe you are just feeding off her energy which is probably not healthy in the long run... for you or the relationship.

 

Next, you obviously didn't read all the previous pages of this thread before commenting because he's an adult crushing on a 16-17 year old neighbor of his, and apparently he feels that he's reading signs from her that she's flirting with him.

He's apparently wondering what to do or he's trolling.