Hi, my girl friend and I are new to D/s and we recently discovered something that neither of us can find any info on and I hoped maybe someone here could shed some light on for me. I've been denying her orgasms until I wanted her to cum. The other day when I told her to cum, as she began cumming I told her she couldn't stop cumming until I instructed her to, and IT WORKED!!! I let her cum for a good three minutes until I stopped her. When I gave her the command to stop, her body instantly stopped climaxing!!! ...as I said we are both fairly new to this lifestyle, and have never heard of this before so could someone please share some insight or a few links on this? Thank you!
I don't know of any concrete information on this, but in my opinion, it sounds like a very powerful connection between her mind and her body. In other words, you were able to have her body do something because she was psychologically stimulated by what you told her. Very impressive. Also, I would love to be part of something like that! Maybe someday...