Homosexual Men And Lesbian Women.

I have noticed generally speaking there seems to be a lot more discimination against homosexual men ,than against lesbian women.why is that ? would'nt you think that those who desciminate against homosexual men would feel the same about lesbian women?,as the reason a lot of people give is that they think its not normal for people of the same sex to be together in a sexual union.but yet those who descriminate agaist homosexual men never seem to be botherd in anyway concerning lesbian women.

 

*Yawn*

 

Men discriminate more than women, in instances of homosexuality, and they tend to find lesbian couples hot due to the misguided notion that an actual lesbian couple would venture to allow the men to be part of the lesbian action.

 

ya men do descriminate more than women.and thats my thinking on it to what you said,which then automatically makes them very hypocitical.

 

Well, this thread didn't jump off loaded with generalizations.

 

The double standard is because we (straight males) think women are hot, and two women naked and getting it on is hot. Not because we think we can join in.

We aren't attracted to men, and two men together is not only mechanically completely different than two women.. but it goes against our most basic instincts as straight males. And it is basically gross.

That's how I feel. But do what you do, I have plenty of gay friends and it doesn't bother me per se. I don't understand it, but that's your life not mine. I think it's bullshit gays can't marry. That's denial of rights to an entire class of Americans.

 

It's cause us lesbians are fine and sexy and we can emotionally relate to one another to bond and form an actual relationship where men can do this too but because they're men, everyone assumes they're only in it for sexual desire and gratification.
I read a lot more posts from gay men that seek their asses to be pounded and gaped and they want hung cocks etc. and a lot more posts from women who want companionship.
To me this gives a pretty bland and pathetic outlook on gay guys, sorry.

 

Its so hard being a lesbian shemale..

 

Maybe if this forum didn't pop up a new thread every so often a small but growing number of people might start minding their own business. When everything from print to TV is pushing you toward a 'side' you have been bought.

Why let it effect you? Im pretty sure the gay males can take care of themselves with out making a 'scene' of it. Its not the 50's anymore and if you think it is, You will get a nice long stay at a fuck you in the ass country club.

Its cool and the gang to talk about events current etc, But that's what 'they' want and maybe if we let it go and pass, More will take notice.

 

I went that route, But changed mind after post op. Plus side, You can have you're own violent sex with suffocation, punches and duel sodomy.

 

I once asked a straight dude (I respected) why two women kissing is a turn on to some folks, while two men kissing is a total turn off? His honest reply was that some straight dudes see two women kissing as a kind of prelude to a hot three way involving two women and one lucky dude. Not really sure why he assumed lesbians would want to have sex with him? Must be some really bad porn he watched on cable (or something)...

QP

 

their are as many gay men in emotionally close relationships as there are lesbian women.

 

well, though as you i admire his honest answer,the assuming lesbians would want to have sex with him is very strange ta say the least.ha! ha! ya bad porn or (something):rofl:

 

I agree with most of your post (except for the part I placed in bold). Why is male homosexuality gross? I see straight folks kissing, holding hands, etc. in society on a daily basis. I don't think heterosexuality is gross. In fact, I pass by with a genuine smile on my face. And I am totally gay.

QP

 

what is it exactly you find gross about it ?

 

This. Women like gay men, but we just want to be part of the hot shopping action.

 

I know that, I said that. But the perception is VERY different.

 

I wasn't talking about kissing or holding hands. That's why I mentioned the mechanics of sex.

Basically if I imagine myself having sex with another male it does nothing for me, and borders on gross (for lack of a better word).

I'm not going to be PC about it, sorry. If someone is gay I have no problem with it and don't believe they should be chastised. I joke around with my gay friends from time to time but they know where I stand about the issue.

Additionally, I know plenty of gay males that are 'grossed out' by the thought of licking a pussy. So it goes two ways.

 

though i can't personally relate to that perception i am curious as to why that would be.any thoughts on it ?

 

Yep !!! Licking pussy is gross. And watching two men fuck is no turn on for me. I just don't get it, but that is because I am crazy about cock in the pussy. Don't be mad at me gay people.....you can go for it....you like it....I'm fine with that.

Ok, it was really HOT in Brokeback Mountain to watch two very sexy straight men play like they were gay.

Oh yeah and to be on topic.....women in general in society are more desirable then men. We have more sexy sensual body types, and different biographically oriented temperaments so we get the benefits of being treated with more flexibility.