Hmm. I'm be curious to see if the dildos/vibrators if used in a similar way to stimulate her as if it was your penis would also cause the irritation and infection. Ask her if she's willing to test that out. At this point all I can really recommend is the process of elimination. Good luck.
I can but she really doesn't like the vibrators inserted. I mentioned earlier but we did buy some condoms. I think the next few times we get together we will try those and see what happens.
The cream didn't stop it so she is calling her Dr. for the oral pill. I tried to plead with her to just go to another Dr. Her Dr. seems like the type that just wants to give an anti biotic to a person just to get rid of them rather than find the cause of the issue. (My words, not hers).
Get yourself to your own doc. Tell her/him the basics: wife gets what her doc says in yeast infections after PIV sex, you want to make sure you aren't harboring yeast, or if so, treat it in you. One other issue could be pH balance. When pH goes off kilter, and semen can do that, it's easy for infections to get a foothold. Also, is she of size, or well endowed? Are you of size? Any skin fold can harbor yeast, and the folds from excess weight can breed doozies. It's ear cheese x 1000000.
Well, it happened again after we used a condom so I don't think it's me. I guess it couldn't hurt to get tested just to make sure. can my regular Dr. do that or is there a special Dr.? Semen never gets in her. We both have a few pounds to lose but nothing major.