Hypothetically speaking of course, if you have been having Cybersex with someone, which is supposed to be strictly fantasy, and you want to break it to them that the fantasy is out of control. You want to meet them someplace and get "friendly", how do you break it to them so it won't piss them off? Has anbody done Cyber before? Did it turn into RealTime? How do you turn that corner? This Hypothetical of course...I was just wondering....
I met my bf via the internet 15 years ago and we've never been happier. It can be a good thing. When he's out of town we still have cybersex to keep it spicy.
In my opinion, cybersex between emotionally/romantically connected parties isn't really a fantasy any more. Rather, it becomes an extension of their love life. At least that's how it feels when I have cybersex with my partner. In the past, I've cybered with girls who I didn't really have much emotional connection with, but those instances were never quite satisfying. However, I quite enjoyed the experience with those who I shared emotional bonds with. Some are my online friends, but the two of them were my online ex-girlfriends. I'm actually still friends with one of them, but obviously we no longer cyber together, lol. But with both exes, we were planning on eventually meeting up for real since those were actual romantic relationships. We believed in our relationships at the time, and we only felt it natural to one day take everything outside the internet. This is the same with my current partner as well. She and I both strongly believe in our relationship, and we plan on meeting up for real one day to take everything into the physical level and beyond. As for the online friends I've had cybersex with, there is a girl who, at one time, told me she wanted to be physical with me if/when we actually met in person. I think I just told her we could be physical but no intercourse. At any rate, I think it all depends on how you approach cybersex. After experiencing a few emotionally absent cybersex when I was younger, I basically decided cybersex, to me personally, would be just as emotionally significant as real sex would be, where a deep emotional bond could make a world of difference in terms of how satisfying the experience would be and what not. As the result, rather than focusing on getting the actual cybersex done, I began focusing on developing such connections/bonds with the girls online who I was attracted to. In my opinion, this is a much more sensible way of determining who would be more inclined to take things to which level, and also just as importantly, determining what YOU want.
