Bitter and twisted women?

Bitter and twisted women?

Seem to encounter them frequently these days many older women but plenty of young ones , often women who are over-weight.

Any views?

 

My Advice Would Be.........Stay Well Clear Of KFC...



Cheers Glen.

 

Glen,

KFC and the people who eat it..........
Then they get mad because you respect your health.

Just doin my thing.

 

Sounding a little bitter a twisted yourself.

It happens to all genders.

 

I work with a number of women in a closed area , they more or less freely and it is always the same drivel, complaints.
Perhaps it is a cultural thing in medico work?
For me i feel life is about changing what you can and making the best of what you can't.

 

Yeah, it pretty much is.
Social ritual to pass the time.

 

Social ritual to pass the time."
As you say, thinking about it now it seems odd that so few of the work colleagues have relationships that they are openly happy about?

It does give me time to reflect while i work in how different my life and feelings were to some of the younger people i work with , when i was their age.
I was very fortunate and it brings a smile to my face sometimes.

You then think about some of the women with children and the endless complaints of their marriages, some separate, what the children must feel and their lives.

 

Fat girls have low self esteem and alot of hormones , bad combo

 

Fat girls have low self esteem and alot of hormones , bad combo"

Reasonable comment.

 

Gender relations are not especially good these days.
Maybe war is not the answer after all.

 

"Gender relations are not especially good these days.
Maybe war is not the answer after all."

You are probably right.

 

Bitter means, disappointed, disillusioned, and pissed about it.

Disappointed because you thought someone else could make your happiness for you

Disillusioned cause that ain't true

And pissed cause you don't realize the truth about it

 

I read this post recently, and it came to mind when I read this thread:

"What men mean when they talk about their “crazy” ex-girlfriend is often that she was someone who cried a lot, or texted too often, or had an eating disorder, or wanted too much/too little sex, or generally felt anything beyond the realm of emotionally undemanding agreement. That does not make these women crazy. That makes those women human beings, who have flaws, and emotional weak spots. However, deciding that any behavior that he does not like must be insane– well, that does make a man a jerk.

And when men do this on a regular basis, remember that, if you are a woman, you are not the exception. You are not so cool and fabulous and levelheaded that they will totally get where you are coming from when you show emotions other than “pleasant agreement.”

When men say “most women are crazy, but not you, you’re so cool” the subtext is not, “I love you, be the mother to my children.” The subtext is “do not step out of line, here.” If you get close enough to the men who say things like this, eventually, you will do something that they do not find pleasant. They will decide you are crazy, because this is something they have already decided about women in general."

 

However, deciding that any behavior that he does not like must be insane– well, that does make a man a jerk."

Your dealing with people who are still child-like in their personal skills, arrested development, mental age of 6-10.

Yes they exist , i see them every day.

 

So do we, right here on this forum.

 

That quote was obviously from a crazy woman.

 

What men mean when they talk about their crazy ex depends on the man. It could mean the things listed. It could also mean stalkers, homicidal psychopaths, border line personality disorder, bipolar, or anything else genuinely in the realm of mental illness.

= woman are good, men are bad

= all men are abusive, and anything positive they say about you really a method of drawing you into an abusive relationship.

There's a big difference between saying "lots of men do this" or "lots of women do that" and saying "all men do this" or "all women do that".

There are men who are genuinely mistreated by women. There are women who are genuinely mistreated by men.

 

I should have prefaced that with:

-This is not a universal truth, but rather an anecdotal observation about the silent force of sexism in modern America.

I did not write that blurb, but merely appreciated the unique (at least to me) observation it put forth. Obviously, not all men are jerks. I certainly cannot speak for all women but I have had the good fortune to be with open minded, loving, and accepting men who have loved me for all of my quirks, weaknesses and idiosyncrasies. Not all women are so lucky.

I do think women have a tougher situation to navigate. I often hear women pinned as "Crazy" for the reasons cited in the quote I posted. I hear men described this way less often.

 

Sometimes crazy behaviour is just crazy.

So it is real to call some people crazy when they are destructive.

Many relationships end badly when they need not , just some crazy fecker takes the wheel.

 

Ahahaha.... How could I have missed this thread until now? It seems you have combined your fav two topics to hate on- women and overweight people into one.

It is shocking to me that you are 60 years old. As I hope that when I am that age I would be even more filled with love, understanding and acceptance towards other people than I am right now at age 33. (and yes, I am a female... so, I guess you would say that won't happen because I am supposed to turn cynical and bitter instead, huh?)

Well, buddy, I have news for you... I have been through a lot of really bad shit in my life... not gonna go to into it but it includes having been homeless for a fairly decent portion of my life, having my first love and best friend commit suicide, many other deaths of people I loved and cared about and... other things....and...
As I've grown older I have learned to have more gratitude for my life and the things and the people I have in my life.. I have become more content- not always needing something to fill the void- but having had filled the void with love and appreciation for both myself and my loved ones and for just...being alive. Nature. Breathing. Being.
The older I've gotten the more these positive qualities have grown in me. Oh, and the opposite of bitterness is pretty much the reason why!
I have learned to truly let go and forgive people who have wronged me or harmed me in my life... including letting go of being upset with myself... I have learned people are people and no one is perfect and I don't expect them to be. I look past the things people have done that have hurt... and I feel zero bitterness towards anyone.
I'm very glad I have acquired these traits as I'm now finally a mommy (of a 2 and a half year old) and he deserves a mom who can teach him how to live and thrive with a heart unencumbered by bitterness and filled with love.
In any case, so... unless I suddenly take a turn in the opposite direction, I think I have broken the mold of your little stereotype there. hehe.
And not just me... but my mom is the exact same way I am. And my grandma. And many other strong, happy women that I know.

Maybe your wife (based on things you have posted elsewhere), is like that.... maybe she has become bitter about something...and maybe you know other women that has happened to. I don't doubt that. But what I do not understand is how a 60 year old MAN could be so BITTER to apply that to most, or many women. Kinda silly, don't you think?

(oh and speaking of relationships.. mostly because I have seen in other threads the way you basically say women suck at relationships- to basically just sum up the many things you have said- I am in a relationship where I have now lived with my husband for 13 years and have been married for over 10 years, and my relationship has just gotten happier and stronger with time. And btw, my husband CAN be a very positive, non-bitter person... but he can also allow himself to get down in the dumps about certain situations beyond his or our control and I am typically the one who shines a light into that darkness and pulls him into a better place...so, explain that one, oh wise one?