She's "biCURIOUS" and talking to another guy?

Alright Before we begin, let me start by saying, I am a girl. I am bisexual.

I am talking to another female who is "curious". We have been talking for about 5 months. Ive taken her on 2 dates. Bought her a necklace on her bday that she loved. We've kissed a couple times. I've helped her out so much with moving and when she was dealing with ex-boyfriend drama. Me.

Well lately, I have been suspecting that she had been also talking to this guy. But just the way he would comment on her status'. He would call her "boo" and nicknames like that. I didn't think much of it then.

UNTIL recently she posted a status talking about the things she has gained since moving to this state. In which the guy proceeded to post "Don't forget you gained a new boo " That's when I started to think she was messing around with other people.

Do I have a right to be upset? We aren't in a relationship. Maybe I am just old fashioned, but i only ever talk to one person at a time. And it just feels weird that she's kissing me, and always wants me to stay over when this other guy could be doing the same. Not to mention, he's OLDER than me (I am younger than her) and he owns his own business. And me, as a female, am not in any mood to be trying to compete with a MAN relationship wise. I'm barely transferring to university.

I don't know how to feel. I really like her, but i don't want to be some experiment to her while she's talking to other dudes. I feel like I am being used. I've done a lot for her.

 

some bisexuals don't consider it wrong to have a fling with opposite members of sex.

 

Not sure how close you are with her, but do you think you have a chance to ask what she's up to? But of course in a best situation and right tone right place. Slowly tell her your feelings, in an acceptable pace maybe?

 

Did she commit to be monogamous with you. Some people are not very monogamous. When you get involved with someone it is best to find out where they stand on those issues.

 

Since she isn't in a relationship with you, she might think you want the same thing as her = only some fun nights.

Tell her that you take it more seriously. And maybe that guy is just a friend. Or he has a crush on her, which doesn't necessarily mean she is sexually interested in him too.

 

Sounds like she's testing the waters to be honest. She doesn't sound commited to you and I suggest you make sure that she is before pouring all of your energy into making things work out with her. Of course you have the right to get frustrated over it and you should definitely talk to her about it. Just make sure you guys are straight (lol )

Edit: Just noticed you posted this a few months ago. Hope things worked out!