Loss Of Interest in Sex

Can you as a man lose interest in having sex but still want to masturbate?

Just asking, my BF (36) seems to have lost his mojo. We only have sex about once a week but he masturbates throughout the week.

Can you want one more than the other?

 

Id rather have a vagina than a hand...

 

^^what he said^^

 

He might just be stressed out. I get like that sometimes, where I just don't want to fuck at all. (Though if I don't feel like fucking, I'm probably not gonna feel like jerking off either.) It happens if I have a ton of shit on my mind.

Maybe you should get him to try meditating. Seriously. Back in the spring I was incredibly stressed out about a bunch of shit and for like a month I wasn't horny at all. Then I got tired of not being horny so I just sat for 20 minutes each morning meditating on how much I was digging my girl. I focused on my stress, realized how stressing didn't do shit to fix any of my problems. Don't ya know, after about three days, I was hornier than I've ever been in my life.

 

I'm addicted to masturbation. Don't get me wrong, I love sex, prefer sex, but I can't help but masturbate.

 

I had this chick give me some mean head the other day, she sucked me off so hard she bruised my circumcision scar.. actually I think its a blood vessel under the skin. its a little hard and along the vein.. eh' so I dont have much interest in sex til my wang recovers.. the first thing I wanna do is, put it back in the mouth that broke it..

 

Yes, but the more likely explanation is HE’S CHEATING ON YOU

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After the initial stages of a relationship when you just can't get enough of one another, reality and work and responsibilities set in, its demanding and tiring. Its not that interest has changed, but priorities. There are certain expectations that men feel that they need to fulfil such as giving their partner pleasure. Quite often these result in having to perform various acts of foreplay and warm up. which when you are feeling tired and run down and all that, you just don't want to go through the rigmarole of it all. It gets to the stage that its easier to have a quick to have a wank to relieve the stress, and get the endorphins running in order to get a good nights sleep rather than run through a warm up check list with your partner. Yup its selfish, it really is, but it also comes from a lack of understanding and you need to communicate your needs to your partner more effectively, in that a quick sex session can be really enjoyable for you, with out having to have an orgasm , etc. With men you really do need to be obvious, he just won't get a subtle hint and you need to tell it as it is. Communicate, talk, discuss, be open, be candid be honest and be spontaneous. Ask to give him a hand when he goes off for a quick Knuckle shuffle, or if you see that he is hard, just offer to give him a hand, and be obvious! things will change and the spontaneity will came back.. And if he still pushes you away, suggest as other shave that he may be thinking of someone else, but that is usually the last thing.

 

My boyfriend does the same but I know he isn't cheating on me.

He has sex once a day with me but I always want more but he rejects it. However as soon as i'm out of the door he is on the pc wanking himself.

He runs his own business so he is working 12 hours+ a day and is pretty stressed.

I know he isn't cheating on me because he asked me to move in with him and he wouldn't ask me anything so major if he didn't want it to happen. I don't think he is not attracted to me because he randomly compared me to the kardashians the other day and told me I was more beautiful than them which is amazing! lol But he's always nice to me. Just my sex drive seems to be higher than his

 

The things we will put our dicks through.

 

Wouldn't that make it hard to type?

 

I'll answer them one at a time....

Yes. Especially if the woman says or does something that ruins the "moment" for him

I've always wanted sex far more than masturbation, but reality worked out the opposite way.

My ex-wife would not "put out" more than once a week, but I would masturbate 6 to 10 times a day, or more.

 

Sounds like your bf is crazy. I never turn down sex with a gf. Your needs should always be prioritized over his

 

So you learned nothing?

 

Sometimes I prefer just to let my wife give me a hand job & no intercourse at all.
More arousing just to have a hand grip as tightly as it can or to stroke over the penis where it goes from one are to another.

 

loss of interest in sex means you are not with the right sexual person to full-fill your sexual needs no matter how crazy they get..

age plays a part with change as well.. loyalty and other things..

if you have a loss of interest in sex, then your buttons not being pushed correctly cause good sex, anyone would enjoy, don't give a damn about your other problems.

 

Probably masturbating to a fantasy, which simply can not be found in reality.

I masturbate to lesbian porn, and am eternally looking for the right girls with the right attitude.

 

I've kind of lost some interest in sex because it seems to be all people care about...honestly I'd rather just masturbate with a guy at this point..I love looking at a guys's naked body, the dick, the chest, the face...I like giving and getting head too, but don't really care about anal sex anymore...if I dated someone who was into just masturbation and oral here and there that would be fine with me...it's much safer...plus I like being able to look at a hard dick...I am very passionate and yeah I like kissing and all that..sometimes that's what gets me started...but I'm over guys who just want to have sex right away then you never hear from them again or if you do that's all it ever ends up being...

 

sometimes just wanking it is way easier than dealing with another person lol.

 

no.

oh, there was more to the question? doesn't matter, the answer is no.