I find this appalling. Regardless of the level of your disability, by the very mention of your having a wife ascertains that you are an adult, which means you have not only of legal Age of Consent, but that you also have Human Rights which are currently being denied you. If I were in your place I would surely take them to court over the matter. It may seem petty, but I would see it as a major case for being denied the right to a minimal quality of life. In fact I suspect that if you were to threaten them with legal action they would yield pretty quickly. The only thing is that you would have to be prepared to follow it through.
You/he might want to consider a Fleshlight or other similar sex toy, which is closer to vaginal sex than a hand.
Except that I find it far easier to masturbate to a climax by hand than I do by using my FleshLight. Although the FleshLisht may feel much better, most of the time I simply use my hands. However,if I happen to have gone a day or two without masturbating, or if I'm overly horny, then I'll try the FleshLight - but even then I sometimes have to resort back to using my hands.
I'm wish you, PineMan. Gotta grab the monster, look at it in my hand. Get into the Bate Zone. "Jerk that bad boy Off!, look at the hand Jerking Off his dick, make it shoot."
Having said that, though, my meds make it difficult for me to reach a climax during actual sex & once it starts to get too much for my partner I usually have to finish off manually, and the same can be said for the reality of the FleshLight. However, more recently I have been seeing an epilepsy specialist who has been weaning me onto a new med that interacts with the ones I'm already one, thus increasing their effectiveness four or fivefold, resulting in my being able to lower the dosage of the original meds. Although, I must admit, I haven't had any Straight Sex in this period, I have to say that I've certainly noticed a difference in my ability to reach a climax using the FleshLight - even to the point that on several occasions I've been able manage it twice in a row - something I could never have even dreamed about previously.
your post poses some questions for me. 1. Is he telling the truth? That's a pretty powerful argument for any woman not performing enough vaginal sex. 2. How developed is his imagination? for me, imagination is the whole game.
I thought it was innate. Touch yourself until it feels good. I guess perhaps he reaches a point but is unable to continue? Doesn't make sense if he is able to while engaging in sex.
I was actually the opposite when I first started having sex with a women. could not come either by bj or intercourse. When a girl would have sex with me they loved it because i could pound them for 5 hrs rock hard before I would come. even now i can hold it back as long as i want to until the wife tells me to get it.
don't have sex with him for a week or so, give him some viagra every night when you're in for the evening , lube up his penis with vaseline and watch porn or do what turns him on and let him stroke it. eventually, he will come like a rocket