Does size really matter

it does matter.

 

But not too much,hey sweetie? I mean it's partly psychological is it not...All this big dick crap?

 

Some people claim Gspot isn't so deep, so, why would a woman need a long penis? But they forget most women don't have Gspot orgasms, anyway. Most of us can still experience the fantastic sensation of a penis in deep penetration.

A penis doesn't have to be really too big, because if it is, it'll hurt. If it is small, it'll be impossible to get the deep penetration aspect of sex.

I understand why in erotica written for women the guys penises are described as big and the women, when having sex, ask the guy to fuck them deep. And men have the same fascination about big penises. Take porn, for instance. Porn is made by men, for men, and they prefer actors with big penises than those with small ones. I watch gay porn, for instance, and there are plenty of big penises on them. Straight is the same.

Some people prefer small penises, though.

 

My husbands is 5 inchs and ive always wanted to try bigger so maybe so

 

Definitely if you're buying tires. Dicks? Not my job.

 

In my opinion, yes it does. I can't enjoy just any penis.

With that said, it has to be somewhat "average" size simply because I've tried penises between 8-8.5 inches and they are simply too big. They are so uncomfortable that they cause physical discomfort for my pussy and I've even become dizzy to the point of almost passing out. Depending how deep it goes, I might even get headaches. Hitting the cervix a few times is fine with me but ramming it over and over is so painful. Most men don't have this ability though.

I would say somewhere between 5-6.5 inches is perfect imo. Also girth is important to me, I prefer something moderately thick so 1.5-2 inches in diameter.

 

I always wonder about people refering to dicks and bra sizes as "I'm". I understand it with height, be causing one is referring to the entire body. I think the phrasing so comonly used is perhaps a root of subconscious anxiety. So many men worry uselessly and needlessly about the size of their penises, and so many women fret over bra size.

I'm sorry about the tangent. I just wonder. To address your question, I think size matters a lot, but not the way most people think when they are asking about it. I think the fit between partners needs to be good. If either partner's genitals are too big or too small for the other, somebody's going home unimpressed. Even the kama sutra says so. But it is subjective. We luckily all come in different shapes and sizes so that there's a nice fit for everyone, though admittedly, if one's genitals are statistical outliers, that search for fit might be more challenging.

I haven't had sex with too short or too thick yet. I have had sex with a man whose penis I wished was just a smidge thicker, and one whose penis was only a little too long, but felt like it was just waaaaaaay too long sometimes. We were poorly matched for fit, but I still had enough fun with both of them to keep going back for more. I think I wouldn't want to bother with a penis longer than the one guy's, nor one thinner than the other's. Bearing down on that thin one was exhausting, and recovering from rough sex with the long one was sometimes a little embarrassing. I felt like it was just obvious wherever I went what had happened. I might tell all online, but in person I'm very prim with strangers.

 

Girth is usually measured as circumference around the shaft, not diameter. Average is about 4.8-5.0 inches.

 

Maybe she really did mean diameter, and that's just how she measures it?

Happily will have to clarify what she meant then...across or around.

 

Agreed, I think she's right, she measured diameter. I'm just saying if you want to do comparisons, it's better to measure the distance around.

 

That's not average, that's dinky.
And it does matter. Not that I need a monster sized dick, but I need to be able to feel it and no one likes a dick that keeps falling out during thrusts.

Stop lying.

 

I''m 8 long, but only 2 inches across... seems thin to me :/ what do you think ?

 

I doubt you're 8 in and you don't measure girth that way.


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For many women, the answer is no. If a man is good in bed, he is good in bed and can satisfy. But for me, having been with a much larger penis than my husband's, yes I do prefer a longer and thicker one. I find that it feels much different in that there is more friction and fullness inside me, and that there is something very visually appealing and sexy about a man with a big cock.

 

Is not important, i prefer a thick penis with small size than a big thin penis

 

My dick is on the high side of average, especially in the girth dept. All I can say is, me and my member have never had any trouble sexually pleasing any woman. It's about attraction and relationship.