Remember The F.. Date

So my wife is mad at me because i forgot our sacred holy dates . But i never knew about them . she is the only one remember . Day we met . Day we first kissed . And etc .
So if anyone out there had same problem as me .Please how did you fix it . 3 days without talking to me . WTF women and idiot date .

 

Tell her that the only date that matters to you is the one your currently in with her. Make her believe that your only interested in the quality over the longevity and you forget these things because of your daily infatuation with her.

Best of luck.

 

I'm awful with remembering dates. I forgot my own birthday once.

 

Pretty smooth, Event H.

 

My condolences.

If every "first" in my relationship had to have its own shrine, I think I'd go crazy. Go with what EH said and give her some roses.

 

Thanks.

Men just don't remember these things. We aren't wired like women are in the sense of sentimentalism towards dates and numbers. I'm sure a fair share of women know this full well before they draw the blade, but they need to show the men who has the edge.

 

Your wife seems to think that your forgetting dates means that you don't care about her.

You could try to convince her that you do care about her, but that remembering specific dates is not as important to you. Maybe just tell her that you love her.

So that's the rational approach that respects her intelligence. Bullshitting her might work better though.

 

i tend to keep a journal , I could tell you every time we had sex, what we did.. Im the date keeper..

 

You know what was sad... really sad

I always had to look up the date my ex's mom died on to calculate the date we started dating.

I always forgot if it was June or July.

We both always forgot our anniversary and never really celebrated Valentines Day so at least we were on the same page.

Nobody got their feelings hurt.

 

Birthdays, and the anniversary of when the relationship started, and later the marriage anniversary are the big ones to remember.

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I think it's a bit much for one's girlfriend to expect their partner to celebrate the day you met, because it's highly likely that the day you met, neither knew they'd end up in a relationship.

 

i assumed this thread was about a fuck date you had.

 

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It is. That's why she's pissed that he forgot.

 

I would suggest telling her you are sorry. Maybe ask her to write them on a calendar so you can remember since it is so important to her. Do something really cheesy like buy her flowers and an anniversary card. When she asks what the anniversary card is for tell her that its for today, the day you fell in love with her again. Ewwww, mushy and cheesy but if she is so sentimental about dates she may like that kind of thing. Only problem with that is she will probably expect you to remember that date next year so write it down somewhere.

My husband ALWAYS wishes me a happy anniversary on the day we started dating. I remember the date but don't always know what day it currently is so he always says it first. I think its cute that he still remembers that after 17 years. I wouldn't expect him to. I expect the important ones. Wedding anniversary and birthday. I don't need gifts. Just acknowledgement is good enough for me.

 

she asked me our first date . wrong answer . but she took it very bad . my answer was 2 days earlier . but at least remembered year and month . women aren't weird . they want to act weird .

 

Just get a new girlfriend, but one you meet on your birthday so the date is easy to remember

 

Best advice so far.

 

It's the best advice for the girlfriend too.
Who wants a dude that resorts to douching about her over the internet over something that is really quite easily solvable, with a minute amount of effort.

 

internet has the total advantage of reveal yourself with no limits . none know you . and you dont know them . we are totally strangers . plus also i gave you a advise . what advise ? some women really cares about THE dates . so you better be prepared .

 

you kidding , right?

 

Don't validate her idiocy.

Tell her that's all a big pile of bullshit and that you both have more things to do with your time than to be tracking these dates.

Tell her you were living the moment when these things happened, not writing down the date to remember in the future. Only losers live in the past. What matters is what you're still going to do, not what you have done.