Older woman, younger man

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by simon_de_bramhall, Jul 4, 2013.

  1. simon_de_bramhall

    simon_de_bramhall Guest

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    Following on from the other thread, why do people have a problem with older women with younger men? In fact that sometimes includes older women themselves.

    I'm 43, I've recently hooked up with a woman of 53, the sex has been great (other than the time she felt a pressing need to answer a call from work on her phone, lol), though she's made it clear that sex is all she's after.

    I had a similar situation in my 20s, I was sleeping with a married woman in her 40s. Her husband was having an affair with his younger secretary, but rather than confront him and lose status of being married to him, she thought what's good for the goose etc and took me as a younger lover - she came on to me. Trouble was, I became very attached to her but when I suggested the possibility that she could divorce him and settle with me, it was made clear that I was good for a f**k but way too young for her to consider as marriage material.

    Even now, I would actually like an older (ie early-to-mid fifties) girlfriend, because most desireable women my age are married, so it's almost as if I have a choice of unmarried women in their 20s and 30s, or divorced women from late 40s upwards. I'd choose the older woman every time, but whereas I've found women are quite happy to have sex with a younger guy, they seem to feel embarrassed about the idea of falling in love with one. :(
     
  2. TheSamantha

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    I'm not into younger men for anything, but that's because I'm only 30. I'm sure when I'm 50, I will have absolutely no problem with having a relationship with a man in his 30s or 40s.:)
     
  3. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Because its private at the moment, make it public and all the other hungry cougars will circle
     
  4. Quiet Storm

    Quiet Storm Member

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    A woman isn't a cougar just because she dates someone much younger than herself.
    It could be she found that man attractive and they liked each other for their personalities.
     
  5. WOLF ANGEL

    WOLF ANGEL Senior Member - A Fool on the Hill Lifetime Supporter

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    I remember "She was 31 and I was 17" - near enough (28 + 18)
    It really was mutually enjoyable - and who is out there who would criticise (although I guess if the gender was the other way around - there would indeed be frowns)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-tDDL1RxXRc"]Bobby Goldsboro -- Summer The First Time - YouTube

    Thank you Kate - it was LOVEly :)
     
  6. true-blue

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    a young penis inside a mature woman....sounds seductive to me
     
  7. Simian

    Simian Guest

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    yes i occasionally have sex with a young man, fantastic :)
     
  8. TTBoy1973

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    I had a 53 year old woman when I was 19(still jerk off to that memory). I've had women in their thirties and forties when I was in my twenties. My current gf is 46, I'm 39. I highly recommend it, they will make you cum hard haha and they know what they want and how to please!
     
  9. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    Today in a NZ newspaper, a 13 yr old was seduced by a 32 yr old woman & she wasn't charged. She got pregnant to him.
    Now that's too young !! She forced him to have sex.
     
  10. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    I have been getting chatted up by an older woman in her late 50's & I think its a turn on but I think she's just joking around to thou.
     
  11. AmericanTerrorist

    AmericanTerrorist Bliss

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    I hate, hate, hate... that term^^

    and the only other comment I have about this thread is double standards just like in everything.
     
  12. falconer

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    All ive seen are people talking about a ten, maybe fifteen year difference in age...

    When i was 22, i hooked up with a 51 year old a few times.
    She looked a lot younger for her age, but she was batshit crazy!
     
  13. Quiet Storm

    Quiet Storm Member

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    Yeah I hate that term too!
     
  14. ranck007

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    Is it better, is it more exciting ?
    What special feeling ?:)
     
  15. simpleGuy

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    Haha! I'm into older women. We should chat sometime ;)
     

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