we're down to having sex 3 times a month.

Some people would say that they are up to having sex three times a month!

 

If he had said that he doesn't have any drive left, then maybe something on the job front is bothering him. Any persistent stress can kill sex life. I know it is not as easy as it sounds, but he needs to talk to you or to a professional about his worry. Once he sheds the stressful thought, he will be light and will join you in bed.

You guys are doing a great job managing the baby and keeping your jobs that pay. From what you have written - I am full of respect for you. Sincerely!

Things will lookup very soon. Don't lose heart! I am double your age - and I am also trying to find ways and means to spice up my sex life. If your man gives up at 27 where will I go, at 45!

 

Another Q: What about the weekends? Doesn't he have energy left on Saturday nights or Sunday afternoons, especially when the baby is asleep?

 

you are lucky... my wife only wants it once a month... i.e when she thinks she is ovulating because she wants a baby