I have no idea why a guy wouldn't want to do that....to the point that he would just walk away from the conversation. That would be my first question...why can't it even be discussed?
I know I love pie. Nice clean warm pie. I'd rather go down on my woman than almost any other activity. Everyone is different though. How important is it for you? I personally have a foot fetish. Most women that I've been with really like it ,but if she didn't like it I'd consider finding someone new, because for me it is that important.
People can't help what revolts or excites them. I used to do BJs just to shut my husband up so I could sleep. Most men only go down to please the woman and do their "duty"-then they act like they should get a reward for their "sacrifice." Big YUP. I was so tired of doing BJs and having guys tell me to do this or that to please them, faking orgasms to make them STOP trying to get me to come, and resenting it, that at some point I decided I was DONE pleasing men and I would do whatever brought me pleasure, or nothing. SO I went aggressive "male" on my new husband, began switching roles back and forth, plus switching his fine ass, eating him, whips, blindfolds, costumes-we both went wild. But whenever he ate me he seemed to be "trying," so I refused to allow it. I could care less, though. I only do sex for the pleasure of sex play-I have no orgasm goal-in fact, I avoid it. Once people get off, the fun is over. I can easily get myself off and refuse to make someone else to feel responsible for it. Life is short. I say do what you want, and if the person you're with isn't sexually compatable find someone who IS.
Anyone who won't even allow for discussion of a problem has no business being in a relationship, and damn' sure shouldn't be having sex because there is no way there should be the remotest chance of that person reproducing. What's so good about this dude anyway? What's he got you can't find elsewhere?