Does anal sex get easier?

I always seem to see the same advice when it comes to anal. Relax, go slow, and use lots of lube. That's all true, but the best way I have found to relax my sphincter and not want to clamp up is to gently push out while he is pushing in.

I promise you, this makes all of the difference. Push out, don't clamp up!

Secondly, the only way I can relax enough is to know that I won't make an awful mess when I do push out. I know there are people who say enemas are not necessary, and they're right. Enemas may not be necessary but for me they make the anal experience a thousand times more enjoyable. When I am certain I am clean then I can relax. 5 minutes of prep is well worth the effort, believe me.

Anal is without a doubt my favorite penetration. I prefer it far more than vag sex any day, but it hasn't always been that way.

 

It is the best. Vaginal is delightful, but more often than not it's foreplay for my mouth or anus.

 

Yeah, baby!

 

We haven't done it that many times... did it last night actually.
I really have to be in a certain mood for it to happen... when it does it's AMAZING
He's kinda thick so we take it slowly and then all of sudden something comes over me and I find myself thrusting back towards him and telling him to hold me down and just ram me till I scream.
Prolly the most intense Orgasms I get is with anal and DP with my dildo and his cock.

I like saving it as a special thing for us, not overdoing a good thing, you know.
Also I get a lil sore the day after... like today lol

 

Only because I know there is NO way of getting out of it, because men like anal sex -- I will try and remember to do this when I have to do it again
I definitely clamped up!!
I dread the thoughts of it. I'd do it for his pleasure.
I don't think I will ever like it though.

 

GOLDEN advice. Push out ladies, like you're trying to pass gas. It dilate the sphincter. This either totally eliminated the initial pain of entry or drastically reduces it.

Relaxing conscioucly is not the ticket, its' the secondary sphincter that makes anal painful.

I recommend analingus for that.

 

Not loose, but you learn to relax which makes it a lot easier.

When you do, it feels so good.

 

Anytime I insert an anal toy into my anus, it starts hurting where the curve of the lower bowel starts & wont go past that area. Have others gone past there & penetrated in further or is that going too far in ?

 

Does that part of the lower bowel actually allow anything hard to go past the curve & in slightly further thou like a penis or sex toy ? The deepest I have had anything in is about 6 inches before it strikes the curved section. Is it likely to hurt going in even a bit more than that thou ? I use a g spot vibrator that has a slight curve just below the end of the tip.

 

How far inside the anus can a penis or a non flexible sex toy penetrate without causing much or no pain until it is too uncomfortable to go any further in. There must be a certain part it can cause damage ?