Sexual Advances From Another Guy

If he touched my phone he'd lose his hand but if I was deliberately at a gay nude area then my silence would be permission to play.

 

Thank you. I was being metaphoric.

 

Wouldn't be more appropriate to say something like "Don't do that, I'm not into that…" before resorting to the dental emergency? How is the guy gonna know unless he asks?

 

When I was young I got hit on by guys multiple times. They would just ask and I would politely respond no thank you. I couldn't figure out why this happened so often until I asked one that hit on me and he said it was the red bandana I had hanging out of my back pocket. I used the bandana to wrap around my hand when I got into fights, which was more often that I liked, so as to not hurt my hand and it really made my hand like a rock. LOL. I kept doing it in spite of the advances, who knew.

 

That's funny! So a red bandana hanging out of your back pocket means you're gay?

 

^no, getting into fights all the time does though.

 

There was a whole color code scheme in the gay community in the 70's that let people know your kink without having to be asked:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ok_SM-aSb4"]Cruising with Al Pacino- Scarf Choice - YouTube

C/S,
Rev J

 

Be flattered but politely decline stating I am married and that my days of testing my sexuality are behind me.

For those who suggest violence, you're hiding your latent feelings

 

How is getting into fights a lot have to do with being gay?
They usually started after me being called pretty boy or something like that. I never started a fight but finished lots of them.

 

Jassy: gotta do what ya gotta do.

 

Do I make you horny baby? Yeah?

 

Depends on the context and whether you were inviting it in some way, and if you want to encourage it, same as if it were a woman.

I suspect you would probably have a good time, go ahead, give it a try.

 

Back in the 80/90'S is when I got hit on a lot while out clubbing. The main way I got approached was by another guy asking me it I liked to kiss guys. They usually looked straight. Who knows they may have mistaken me as gay because of my bandana hanging 1-2 inches out of my back pocket. They may have been wanting to kick my ass thinking I was gay so they asked, which if that is the case it is sad. This may explain why I got into many fights, them thinking I am gay. To bad for them because they got their ass kicked. My best friend growing up had a younger brother that was gay. He always flirted with me. He is a she now. One evening while getting plastered and hanging out by the pool She Showed me her Gye and it looked just like an original female part. He I meant She had some really nice tits as well. I have never crossed over but always joked that it doubled my chances of getting laid on the weekend when guys hit on you as well. I always believed to each their own and I was never bothered by gays. It's their life live it like they want. Power to them.

 

I think a lot of the people who claim that they would respond with violence are full of shit.

I've spent some time in some rough redneck bars and I have pretended to make advances towards asshats in order to avoid fights and arguments, as well as to just make them go away. Every single time they just freak out and walk/run away. These are the same asshats who would say that they'd knock a faggots teeth out if they hit on them.

 

...I'd make him buy me dinner...& suck his dick...

 

Totally agree. I have been hit on by guys. My response was "Thanks I'm flattered, but no thanks".