Should I never marry, never have kids because of this...

So go ahead and cry about it. Getting stood up and breaking up is something we can all sympathize with.

But you gotta be resilient, change different dating and approach tactic, learn and grow as an individual personally and professionally, so that when you go out on a date or even just around the neighborhood you're gonna meet people.

From your other posts it sounds like your real life social network is small, my advice is work on that because it is through those avenues you will probably meet a girl that is right for you.

I can't tell you how many times my friends male or female met their long term boyfriend or spouse in some cases because of these channels.

1. Roommate's sister/brother or friend.

2. Someone's bridesmaid or groomsmen.

3. Someone you meet at work.

4. Someone you meet out of town or vacation

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This feminine energy you speak of is indicative of making a claim on the entire gender which if the roles were reversed I'd be angry at any girl that comes on here and starts ranting about how all guys suck because of their masculine energy.

The concept of over generalizations to vent anger is understandable but when you start forging a grudge out of it and start giving advice and responding to other people's comments and threads with that same tone, it becomes a problem.

Moderators can correct me if I'm wrong but I do not think these forums were meant for venting with impunity for the long term.

 

dump him

 

Lol. You tried to play it cool after trying too hard, that comes off as weird.

By the way, you can neg rep me all you want but at the end of the day you should've listened to my advice months ago, seeing as I'm the one without a problem getting laid. It's almost painful to read about your interactions with females.

 

He'd have to actually get to the point of having sex for someone to cheat on him. That's his problem, he's all intense and just trying to find someone to fuck but doesn't even know how to approach that. I tried to help him awhile back but he knows it all and none of it is his fault.

 

It has been three years since the treatment, yes they are permanent.

 

so let's dump the guy?

I've been laid. that's not the issue.

I just apparently meet dense people like you who are quick to close-mindendly judge every interaction. 2 other people told me what I said was fine.

If the chic that got the ''thx for the invite'' finds that needy, then holy hell are we in a one-way-track to stupidity.

I don't need your help. I already know what it is. You are dumb enough to fit the social bar. Congrats.

 

Yes u SHOULD AVOID ALL OF THESE THINGS