We are a close family and nothing is taboo and never has been .The kids were brought up naked and hardly wore clothes except when absolutely neccessary until they were in their teens and it is still their joice now oldest is 21 and youngest is 13 .We are not into incest at all but they have on occassion seen mum and dad pleasuring and walked in on full blown sex sessions no big deal .We have caught all but the youngest pleasuring at certain times never made a big deal of it ,its natural .Wondered how others feel about this we never close doors at home and dont make a big deal of things.
If it works and the kids are free to do as they wish its ok IMHO but if they can't dress when they want well thats another story.. regarding sex, getting caught vs doing it in front are two diffirent ideas. We plan to have an open house no clothes required house with kids
My mom was naked a lot when growing up so I was also and when teens she caught me masturbating before many times.
hi, we are not old fashioned, but i do not believe in this type of open home/open door policy, and even more so when it comes to sex, there is no way i want my kids seeing their parents (us) having sex, nor do i ever want to see my kids masturbating or even having sex openly in our home. nudity within a family is fine, when and where it is acceptable, but there is a time and place for it in my opinion, and that comes from a couple who do practice nudity at the beach when we get the chance, but not with other members of the family. cheers
Perhaps your right, but you've got to understand that some people post willfully controversial statements to entice and taunt responses. I think that these 'borderline' statements/comments/questions are just an attempt to get sexually taboo conversations started rather than being absolute fact. I know that I'm probably feeding the trolls for stating the obvious, but I truly believe that posting stuff like this on a public forum is not at all helpful when so many of us struggle to 'normalize' nudity within the mainstream. Madesh :sunny:
i totally agree with you 110% (if thats possible) and after reading lots of thread topics on my first day here (in the love & sex forum) i have already noticed a serious trend where there just seems to be a lot of topics that i just find very difficult to believe (along with some of the replies to those topics) and some topics that i absolutely rate as utter and total lies, and clearly posted to raise some sort of attention to themselves. sad but true i hate to say.
Hip Forums Has Over 500 Forums, If You Don't Like A Forum, Move On To Another... Problem Solved...:2thumbsup: Cheers Glen.
firstly, The Hip Forum is a forum, and it has sub forums within that main forum, whether or not it has 500 is not relevant to anything i said, and nor is telling me to move to another forum if i dont like something i read in one of the forums. the previous poster to me stated some facts in reply to my first post (to which you did not react to) and i merely supported what he said (to which you did react to with your post above) and i would have thought that we have a right to express our thoughts, as long as we post them within the rules of the forum, which i believe i have done. i also thought that forums were there for members to post comments that are only relevant to the topic of the thread (which i did) and is not there for members to tell other posters what to do or say, at least that is the way it works in all the other forums i am a member of. cheers
i totally agree, it amazes me just what some members are willing to post in this forum, especially regarding this kind of topic. call me a prude, but what this member, and some of wht other members have posted in this thread, and others like it, to me is downright disturbing, and it most definately is NOT NORMAL as they seem to think it is. sorry, but i cannot believe that this type of activity actually does go on inside the homes of some naturist families, and i mentioned some of these wierd practices to some friends of ours this morning, and they were grossed out by it. again, call me a prude, it is just my point of view, but i honestly think its a very sick practice.
I don't call you a prude, but I think you may be rather gullible. I've got used to hitting the "back" button while muttering "yeah, yeah" about a lot of stuff that people post here. There's absolutely no proof of any of it, and basically there never can be any proof--nor can it be disproved. So you might as well just read it for amusement and not take it too seriously. But you could imagine what it would be like if someone on Hipforums is saying "What can I do that's guaranteed to grab people's attention?"
just because i replied to this topic does not make me gullible, i dont actually believe what he, and some others have actually said, i just passed comment by saying i dont believe a lot of the rediculous stories that some members post, but why they do it, well god only knows. as for many of the other BS stories i have read, well i just dont get involved, i am learning to just close the thread and shake my head wondering why ?
Maybe I didn't read your message carefully enough. But if you don't actually believe what people have written, then maybe it's not right to say "It's a very sick practice" but instead it should be "It's very sick to be making up stories about this stuff". Are we responding to reports of something truthful, or to fiction? If someone's just trying to make us shiver with a sensational story when we'll never know their real identity, then I'm not going to respond very much.
yep i agree with you, i could have said it the way you mention it, so i will further add to your comment. ok, if someone posts up a story like the one that the OP created here, and he was to claim it is true, then it is a sick practice, and i have no qualms about saying that. now, if the same person posted the same story but he actually just made it up, then that is also a very sick practice as well, and gives a very clear indication that they have these thoughts set in their minds already. my wife and i are nudists when we get the chance to do it at one of our more remote beaches, we also walk the house naked or semi naked sometimes as well, but only when our 14y/o daughter is at school, or at a sleepover at a friends home, and we keep the doors locked because we have other family members who just turn up un-announced and they will just walk in the door without knocking we know other couples who are more into naturism than we are, and they practice it at the beach with their kids, but only if the kids want to do it, and in the home, there is no full nudity, only topless by the females if they wish to do so. i know they would be totally against the sort of crap that has been posted in this thread. now thats the end of that, nuff said already i think
My opinion is that you'd be surprised to learn that many use so called nudism to get to sexual adventures with children. Many have reported it (young and old) and that is disturbing. My children have seen me nude on many occasions and it was no big deal but never was I aroused around them. We as parents are supposed to protect and teach our children, not destroy and abuse them for sexual needs of deviants. I believe what the op stated as I heard lots of that going on. That's not what nudism is about. It would be different between consenting adults, not children....... sickening
you believe him because you have "heard" about this sort of behaviour going on, but have you ever seen it going on, or actually come across families that tell you they practice this same "open door" policy the OP described in his post, including the "sexual" openness he describes. if it really does happen, then the parents should be ashamed of themselves for the "sexual" thing to be going on, even if it is not between the parents and their kids, it is not right for allowing kids to see their parents screwing each other, or parents seeing their kids masturbating or having sex because of this rediculous "open door" policy some of these "so called" naturists or nudists put in place in their homes. apologies for going on about it, i shall refrain from saying any more because i just have very strong feelings on this topic, just as many other people out there would.
Just so you know, we are both on the same side of the fence on this and yes I have knowledge of it happening. Once while talking to this woman, she showed me pictures of her and her dad in compromising situations and I was discuted by it. Needless to say that the conversation was cut short about nudism..... sorry but it is more common then most people think.
i understand we may be on the same side of the fence on this, and i was not meaning to sound rude, but if you say you have proof then what more can i say, however in your post, where i highlited some text in bold, i hope these photos were not "incestuous" in any way, if they were then that would be taking this to an even more disturbing level. as i said, nudity in the homeat nudist resorts, beaches etc is fine as long as all participants are not forced or be made to be naked if they feel uncomfortable with it, but this open door thing blows me away.
