I was talking to my boyfriend about it, and he said it bothered him that I would consider a 3some with another guy. So guys, would it bother you, if your wife or partner and said she wanted a 3some?
No I am not insecure and know the difference between sex and love. I do not get jealous about anything with my lady. She does not give me any reason to be. We communiciate about everything and don't live our lives in lies and deceit.
You've gotta stop posting the same thing more than once. Brutal. http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=483877&f=283
If it was a younger woman & she was of medium build & not afraid to try new things - then no it wouldn't bother me - If it was a guy, then yes.
Naiwen, I'm desperate to invite another man to join my wife and I for a threesome so NO, it wouldn't bother me at all. We've been married for 12 years and although we talk about this a lot during sex, she says it's best left as a fantasy. I've done threesomes before we met and I know how hot and sexually charged two men and one woman can be so I'd love to see her being fucked by another man as she takes my cock into her mouth. Jealous? Not a chance! I would arrange it for tomorrow if she'd let me!!!
The fact of the matter is that my wife did come to me and told me she wanted to experience doing a mfm, wanting to know if she could handle two guys sexually at the same time, and want kind of sexual pleasure it would bring her. To make a long story short I did agreed to doing a mfm and never expected it to bring me any sexual pleasure, I did it because it was my wife sexual fantasy. I never expected to get any sexual pleasure from sharing my sexy little wife with another man but to my surprise it did bring me sexual pleasure, seeing how sexually turn on my wife got from being with two men at the same time, who sole purpose was to bring her sexual pleasure. And since that first incident of doing a mfm, we have continue doing them. It like my wife has told me she loves me and the other guy is nothing more then a sex toy to her, & he is being used for her sexual pleasure.
Nice one watchedwife. I am absolutely certain that I'd feel the same if I was lucky enough to experience a MFM threesome with my sexy wife. You're a very fortunate husband and don't you forget it!
Whether or how much it bothered me would depend on whether she wanted a threesome as an experience or if she wanted a specific man to join us.
My last serious partner and I discussed it. It would have been a F/F/F 3-some and neither of us was shocked. But like most things in that relationship, it came to nothing.
^^ Perhaps lame, but straight forward. When setting ground rules, its best to find rules that suit the participants, rather than rules that "aren't lame".
I think that it would be fun. She can get a great deal of attention from both of us, try double penetration and a few other fantasies. Why would I take offense to her fantasies or desires? I am secure with myself and certainly enough as to not take offense to a thought or fantasy... That is ridiculous and quite childish. Since love and sex are separate things, I just want her to be happy and enjoy herself! I am perfectly secure with our relationship. After all, I am happy when she is happy!