Why does vagina not have to try at life?

Also, the fact that I express interest doesn't mean the man is free of any obligation. I'll start, but he has the task of keeping my attention. That's the hard part.

 

For some reason, I picture you chatting with us on HF while he tries to "keep your attention." Poor guy, how can he compete?

 

Hf is a lot more interesting than a lot of men that have tried. :/

 

Sounds like you need a master of seduction like ole Carlos.

 

Do you think so?

 

Quit playing games, OP. Instead of complaining about a few women, just live your own life. If you don't like the type of women you described, don't play by their rules. Just move on.

No need to complain. I know plenty of men who expect everything handed to them without doing the work. It happens. Don't associate with them.

 

I do work. Then I get blown off over a stupid text. I do work, then I get blown (not the good kind) because I show too much attention?


da fuq?


And you want me to take initiavie/administer social suicide when all you've done to peak my interest or even get me halfway there is what now?

YOU.CANT.JUST.EXIST. and all of a sudden I want to make a confession to you.
That's not being a wimp. That's called not jumping over a cliff towards someone who's taken 1 step your way.


I don't know wtf the issue is. I know I am a more passive person in my action.. (until getting pissed is required). I know I could go try banging an uglier girl.. (no). I know years of having to be the man


but men, people come in all shapes and sizes and feelings,

and being rejected a few times has left me so distraught I can't muster up the


!!manly confidence!!



that is required every damn time just to get your twat.


As batshit insecure as you are surely you can't understand how another person with different genitals can't be feeling and thinking that?


sheesh...


And I still can't get over how easy it is for you slums to get sex. I need to become a secure person, well-rounded large and in-charge.


You don't have to mature jack-shit. Actually I'm not judging you nearly as bad. Wtf is that.


*sigh* woo...sah...

 

Me neither (well, not only anyway..) :2thumbsup:

If this doesn't make sense to OP I don't know what will :cheers2: I personally think he is just chasing a particular type of girl and it seems that type is really not into him.

 

Saw this the other day and reminded me so much of kok

http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2014/02/why-women-dont-approach/

 

I really think the type of girls is his problem.

To be honest, he doesn't seem like the type that can afford to be shallow.

 

Or maybe if he started referring to woman as a complete human being and not just a walking vagina, things might change for him.

 

:iagree:

 

I've told OP this before in a different thread.......Stop trying to fuck vaginas. Befriend a woman or two. Treat her/ them like a human and just be friendly. No funny business. You're perspective will change and so will your interactions with other women.

Or just continue to be a choad full of hate.

 

Nice advice

 

Considering how long all of us have been telling him versions of that...I'd say that he'd chosen the choad life.

 

Even if he wasn't just in it for the vagina, things like this ^ is what makes him really pathetic. He must be quite a looker himself then :sunny:

I was always teached that real men never mature (entirely). But maybe only pretty boys or people with a positive self esteem can afford that :mickey:

 

I think that men have a lot of legitimate complaints about women and relationships. Gender relations today are quite bad, imho. I don't know about all places, but certainly in the USA/urban northeast.

The degree to which you are angry/ getting wound up about relationships is probably part of the problem here. Generally girls like guys who are at least a little manly, and who don't seem like they are psycho.

Finding a way to chill out a little could help. Also, maybe being a little more comfortable with taking the initiative could help you.

It seems like someone sold you on a notion of gender role equality that I think doesn't really fit most people.

So maybe be a little more chill, and accept more of a traditional manly gender role.

 

I like the nerdlove article I posted.
Not sure if people are bothering to read it.

 

I will now that you mentioned it twice (i'm serial).

 

your article is a giant load of bullshit, imho