She says she has never had orgasm

I think the pissing on a lover fetish/kink (which term is more appropriate here I forgot), has more to do with "marking" territory and getting your scent on them and stuff rather than anything else.

 

I can smell my man on me when we are done making out,,, that works for me, hahahaha.

 

That's a good point

 

Yeah urinating on people or being urinated on isn't my thing either.

 

One thing I don't want to smell like is piss,,, wait there's two things, poop neither. I am all about smelling perrrrtty, at least till I land in a seniors home where they forget about me or wait for the next shift to come in and change me, haha.

 

Sallysmart... the whole concept of being old and alone in a nursing home ... scares the piss and poop out of me. Ugh

 

Me too, been saving and investing in hopes I can afford to pay my way into a better graded facility then all the average ones...
Who knows, by then they might not even exist and we all sit in our homes eating dog food and shitting on our furniture.
Best to save the Pissing on each other thing for then....

 

Best way to avoid that is to eat healthy, be physically fit, and be a careful when it comes to activities that can cause chronic problems like injuries to the spinal cord and the knees and other vital areas needed to maintain a constant exercise regime.

And to not adopt a YOLO lifestyle, when young.

 

I may have missed the answer to this as I haven't read every post.
But most females learn about how to orgasm by themselves first. Kinda to find out what exactly works best for them.
Also, I personally find it much easier to orgasm when I am on top because then I can control what areas get hit... and also for me, (and I think for most women) these things are very, very, very, very, very, very, veerrrryyy mental. I can control if I finish or not based on exactly what my thoughts are and what I am focusing on more than by any other way.

 

Omg! This is why women lie about and fake orgasms! Because as soon as a man hears that you haven't had an orgasm it turns into a project for him. He's determined to fix it. The great sex goes out the window. Just enjoy it for what it is and if it happens it does. If you start focusing on making it happen I guarantee it won't.

 

I cant agree with this "most women start on their own thing". Yes like men we might touch down there as teens out of curiosity but I never knew anything about an orgasm till I was with my first and he said it was going to be like bells and bombs going off, yes he probably watched The Movie.
Anyway my first orgasm was when I was 17 and it was amazing. He didnt even ask me to do penatration till we were both comfortable with hand stimulation. He was great at building me up to it with talk and asking me if what he was doing was making me get there, telling me he wanted me to cum and such. He showed me everything.
It is a mental thing, I'll agree with that. For me if a guy is into it but not totally into it I could be wondering why rather then keeping my mind on what's happening. Or if I have had a lot on my mind I have to do the work to get it off my mind to make it happen but I am sure guys are the same here. We will have to hear it from the guys.
Is it a project for the guys to make us cum? Maybe, or does a guy who knows us well and turns us on with love and trust actually have less or no problems with it at all. My bet is it could be a project for him if there was an argument before, or he says something off the wall during like he ran into his X today, or is into TV or something at the time.
Yes we do have feelings and they do play a big part before, during and after. Heard a friend once say her hubby liked to have sex to make up after a good argument and she thought it was much easier for him to get off then it was for her and sometimes it was like She was helping Him get over the argument. I seriously can't make out after a good argument so I can believe that statement because we probably get more emotional about our insecurities, mind you if my BF thinks something is wrong he gets really concerned fast and it bugs him till he asks and we talk about it. Once he knows I just had a mood swing or just said something he took wrong he is ok and says he was scared he did something wrong and he was going to lose me.
Being we are still a bit new to each other, just over 5 months now, he doesn't want to see it end, he has felt the hurt of losing his partners after years of a relationship and he hopes this is his last First kiss he will ever have to do and it goes on forever. I do wish he was less worried tho because I am not the kind to get into it unless I cared for a guy and I do hope he doesn't bring those feelings into the bedroom, or where ever we decide to play around. It will become a project for us both then. Somethings are best not said while making out or planning an evening of it.
Oh, and is it easier for me to orgasm on top,,, nope, on top if more is happening and clitoral are both easy for me but if he was on top I couldn't seem to but then again there are my best or favorite positions to make it happen and his and we do all of what works for both. It's not about him, or about me, it's about both.