I shouldn't have sugar coated my first response and I'm just gonna say, seeing all of your responses, you clearly don't respect women. And that, is your problem here.
He's got a perfect opportunity with his neighbor.. I can't believe he doesn't see it! If he can succeed in a friendship with her, they'll both benefit. Maybe I'm being too idealistic, I don't know. They've already interacted so it's not like he'd be coming at her out of nowhere. It's just a friendship .. doesn't mean he has to have a goal of bedding or wedding her lol He can get a small bouquet of flowers .. they sell 'em at the grocery store pretty cheap .. then go to her and say, "Hi, remember me? I'm a miserable fucking bastard and I want to make some new friends .. I picked you" .. then give her the god-damned mother fucking flowers and see what she does. hahaha
No. He needs to leave that neighbor the fuck a lone. Would you want anyone trying to suddenly befriend you after they said the shittiest thing imaginable to them? If I was her and buddy showed up at my door with flowers, he'd have to put them in the barrel of the gun he'd be starring down.
All the more reason to seize the opportunity. He can take responsibility, make amends and grow. Change.
It's tough for some guys and I know because I'm on of them. Surprises me some women don't realise how tough it is for some of us. They say looks is secondary to them but from my experience, I beg to differ
I can see that some people totally miss what I was getting at, and twist around the examples I used. Then folks complain about the location I have on my profile. Oh well. If a person cannot understand that I'm not going to put the hinest truth there, then perhaps they should look at their own. I'm not looking at getting a woman through HF. Instead I was hoping to see HF as not only a place to cyber-socialize, but learn and grow. Hard to grow when I listen to this shit. Sorry I asked anything.
But then there are many of us who know searching for looks is not always the way to go. I did that once and he thought he was every girls dream, a gift from god to women and it showed in his every move. He put the moves on me and once we were there he seemed to be putting the moves on anything that moved. He wasn't even shy to admit he was good looking, and he even took longer to get ready to go out then I did. Good at anything else,,, nope, not really. This type thinks women get off on them alone and they don't have to do anything in bed or toward the relationship, not saying all good looking men are this way but some are full of themselves. And don't kid yourself, some men are after looks too and some nice looking women can be a jerk about it. I think I am probably average looking and I don't try to dress it up any because I think if I did and I attracted a guy, once the make up and stuff comes off he will see the real me anyway, why not be her so a guy knows what he is getting,,, and my man now and in the past were chosen because they showed me they cared to have me around, and really, I kind of get a kick out of my man looking a little rough around the edges as long as he is clean and cares for himself and could dress up if needed for someone's wedding or funeral or a New years dance.
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