Is it ok to brag?

Only with my best friend.

 

This thread triggered a question I've long thought about but never when I had the forum to actually ask: When girls brag or Share information about a great or terrible sexual experience with a guy, what are the usual questions that are asked and answered? Like for example, Size, sexual acts performed during intimacy, orgasms, length of time.....etc. Or is it much more basic than that?

 

I brag sometimes.

 

I think it's okay with friends yeah. Pretty normal.

 

Make your own thread rephrasing this question is what I suggest.

 

It's ok to brag and more than ok to be told that you are bragging and should stop it.

 

Ok, lemme see here, your sister-in-law told you about her great sex with,,, your brother? Ikkkk

 

Probably her hubbies sister

 

I don't...as I have nothing to brag about......:leaving:


LOL

 

I find it inappropriate to talk about sex with people. And I don't think my girlfriend would like me sharing intimate details. I'll make sex jokes, give advice, or the odd comment here and there. But nothing too personal.

 

I agree with you, Lunarverse....i think it is inappropriate to brag about anything, in all seriousness now.

 

I feel exactly the same :sunny:

 

Being around other males, especially the kinds that work in the field I do, can make it difficult and awkward. They find it weird when a guy is reserved or polite about it.

 

It depends on your lifestyle. If you're in a closed, monogamous relationship, then don't brag. If you're not, and everyone is ok with stories being told, then go for it.

I love being bragged about.

 

I know man. For example I have a friend who wanted to watch a good porno with me and some other friends. I had to decline and was happy to see I wasn't the only one. The dude who offered didn't seem to really understand
Other example of the same friend: he had sex with a whore and had great fun: insist to tell us in detail. We had to point out we thought it is great that he enjoyed it but we do not have to know what he did with/to her...
On the other hand, good sex jokes are hilarious especially in unexpected (but well timed of course ) circumstances/moments and when I think I have the answer to a sexual problem I am sometimes happy to share it.

 

Yeah... I've been in similar situations. Most notibly was this one time a friend and I were out drinking and he's like, "Let's go back to my place, I wanna smoke a dube. I've got some whiskey for you."

Long story short we go back to his place and he brags about all the porn he gets on his dish and he leaves a hardcore movie on his big screen while we're sitting there, like its normal programing or something. He's rolling one, I'm sipping Crown Royal, and there's this movie on his like 52 inch tv. I'm like, "Man, why don't you see if the Addams Family is on or something..."

He didn't get it. Like, why would I want to sit around a room full of dudes getting stiffies watching hardcore porn. It's not Jeopardy...

I had a friend like this too. He was going in detail about a "booty call" he was set up with in Montreal over the weekend. What are you supposed to say to that? "So... You're not calling her back, eh?" ... Awkward.

Oh for sure. There's definitely a difference. One isn't necessarily personal.

I made a joke, a sex joke, at work a couple months ago and this guy (in our group) says, "I bet that's what *Lunar* says when he's fucking his girlfriend."

That's the kind of shit that pisses me off and makes me uncomfortable.

I gave that guy the bitchwork for the night

 

I don't like being bragged about, our sex life is our secret and if I heard what a good BJ I give or what he likes about my body or what he does that pleases me from his friends I would be pissed. He says all the time he loves certain things we do but that's between us, if I want others to know I will jump in bed with them too.
I already told him his buddies can talk all they want but since I hang out with them too he better just be telling them the basics. Online we can say more I think as long as it isn't bullshit or dissing the other.
My X had pics he took with my permission, they were for him and one day I was at his work and one of the guys commented on my near naked pose,,, ya, quite the embarrassing moment for me.
One guy at my last place of work told us all he was dating a lady who worked at Kentucky fry as manager, described her to a T and proceeded to tell us she did deep throat, couldn't stay away from his cock, did everything a slut would,,, I knew her because she worked the drive through window often when staff was short so not hard to spot her with "Manager" on her pin with her name below it as she is handing you your order,,, I sooooo wanted to tell her what he said about her all over his work place,,, couldn't bring myself to it tho, not in me to destroy him but she was the blunt of his entertainment since probably everyone who heard it was served by her at least a few times. Imagine if he took her to the company Christmas party, I was gone by then. You gotta be sure what you say isn't considered by the other as private, or a lie, and it won't come back at you too. Not sure if they lasted or not. But he sure wasn't thinking of her, just his need to feel cool and prove himself to someone.

 

OK, I will brag. I make a mean pasta sauce.....LOL

 

This I can do, I make the best chili anyone who has tried it has had. I grew up on traditional chili, mine is ten fold better. Thick, creamy and cheesy too. Hot,,, ya, a bit of a sneaky kind of hot but not the five alarm version.

 

God, I got a dislike for cracking a joke. Someone is mean here.