Why do men who have money get married?

since we're running a night club together, it happens.

and i haven't kept count, lol. nor do i need to provide you with a number.

 

LOL, so in other words I'm right then

Look its something everyone gets bamboozled by, we only really pay attention to whoever we are attracted to, fill in the blanks with what we dont really pay attention too, only go by what we see, thus its not till later on we work out all the stuff that happens that we never see

What actually happens, if anything, what is really going on in those girls heads you are not going to find out, cos you are you, you are not going to bother wanting to talk to them for the follow up. If its a case of, I'll just let him do his business for 5 mins so I can get some blow, if thats involved, or he can buy me pretty things, or even maybe I can be his next girlfriend then I can start training him as a hubby, or just brag to their friends - hey I hooked up with the owner of _____ last night. If it was actually about sex you have to ask yourself why arent they coming back for more, why doesnt he have a whole bunch of them that will text him every couple of months.

But if you are in business together, you are in business with a straight guy and one of his main motivations, if not THE main motivation is to 'nail chics'. Then danger Will Robinson, Danger. How much time,resources and profits are going into those girls, do you know, are you sure. And what is the risk assesment that one of them may come back with a sex harrassment suit, against him, and thus you and any other partners as well.

Whether its gay guys or straight guys, the golden rule is really, if they have to brag about it, or just really let anyone else see. Well then they are full of it

 

holy fuck, my mind is so much simpler than this. when we were talking about guys getting laid i thought actual fucking, getting blown, etc counts, but apparently there are a whole bunch of conditions that go along with it that counts as getting laid in your book. ......

yeah, i know about the amounts of green that go into those girls in the clubs. that is ridiculous. but luckily that's not the case in our club. if anybody does that it goes out of their own private pocket, which i have no problem with. but i've been involved with one other club and that was truly more a meat market than a night club.

and everyone in our management is very mature. established guys who don't need to brag and who don't have anything to prove to the world. some of the best guys i've met in life, actually. it's real fun to work with guys like that.

 

Women like money....I was walking behind a couple today and overheard a snobby ass bitch say something to her boy friend about fuck the train lets just walk down to the circle and catch a cab. Then I see her boyfriend get a cab...I'm sure he's the one who paid for that cab and the 20 (or is it 25?) percent mandatory tip if he used plastic!

 

Well, duh. I don't know many guys who don't. Unless they are bragging or so out of my league I don't even know them.

And you're talking about your club guys. I bet they are waaaay above average. Even if you take someone like Kobe, who, as far as straight guys go, you can't get a guy who's going to get it thrown at him any more. No straight guy is ever going to get more action than that ni***.

Supposedly he cheated on his wife with a hundred chicks. That's nothing. I have fucked a hundred chicks. Granted about 75 were hookers.

Do you know how many chicks I'd fuck if getting it were as easy as you make it out to be? Certainly in the thousands.

Maybe your friends are in the minority, not the majority as you think. But that's the kind of guy you hang out with so you completely ignore the average out of shape, middle aged, guy desperately hanging on to a shitty job in order to scrape a meager living, who'll get a grand total of 6(!) women for his entire existence on this godforsaken planet.

 

I agree with meridian, this is pretty ridiculous in this day and age. The majority of women don't save themselves for marriage anymore unless they're part of some fundamentalist religious group. Men married for pussy in the 1950s at age 18 because their girlfriends were saving their virginity for marriage. Its 2014 now, most women lose their virginity as teenagers and most couples live together before they marry. I thought the modern stereotype is that men get less pussy after they marry.

 

Women saving themselves for marriage. Fuck outta here...I seen a nun today in the train station...the only way i could tell is she had a name tag that said "sister (name)". I was cursing loudly so moved away from her but i'm sure she's probably had every dick on the block...she just never talks about it

 

You sure do make a lot of assumptions. How do you know how much sex she's had or who paid for the cab? There's millions of possibilities that you, as an outsider will never know about a stranger's life and/or relationships.

 

did i say it was so easy to get laid as to escalate the number into the hundreds, thousands? no.

i argued that a guy does not have to get married in order to get ****. which it was proposed somewhere along the way on this thread. and which is beyond ridiculous to allude. i implied there is always something out there, for everyone, leaving out the numbers. you jumped ahead and read that as free-for-all-for-everyone. which is ridiculous too. you are blowing it out of proportion.

and i specifically brought it out that it was in the guy himself how much he gets (whether he's a damn night club owner, a college kid, or a guy scraping by on some dead-end job; and i'm not implying the job is the deciding factor by the way). i'm not gonna go back and requote myself, read my damn posts. i've been consistent throughout my entire exchange.


i, for my part, wouldn't even want to fuck a hundred or a thousand guys. quality over the quantity is more important.

riiight...

 

and even as unavailable as quantity is, quality is MUCH less available. so if you manage to get it, you marry it in hopes of keeping it around.

 

Ur right I don't really know shit...I was mostly being cynical. That shits really none of my business lol

I almost got married..still in credit card debt cuz I put a ring on plastic but that card is good as gone
I sold the ring for like $150 :/

Oh well it is what it is..the past doesn't matter only the present and future:sunny:

 

this.

sure, i don't have cameras installed into people's bedrooms to be 100% sure that this is true (Vanilla Gorilla won't believe it otherwise), but my understanding on this subject is the same.

at least this is the climate in Europe. maybe in the Middle East you have to get married in order to get some. that does sound probable, though i have no idea how these things are arranged over there.

 

when you have money Friends are never hard to find,every one wants a piece of you or your money,and you often wonder dose anyone really care for me or my interest ,there people just like anyone else,thy want to fill safe ,like thy have a place where thy can be just who thy are without thinking is this person out to get me or my money,
its there week point ,and many know this and use it against them ,so money becomes there prison.

 

Why does anyone get married?

 

Alright. You seem to be taking it personally, for whatever reason unbeknownst to me. So, this conversation ends here.

 

lols. what's there to take personally in this exchange?

you do jump to a lot of assumptions, don't you?

 

And I used to be such a nice guy...

 

Not all of them do, I've been with the same girl for 22 years and will never get married, no matter what.

 

Men like money too!
So they can pimp out their ride, buy the tools they need to remodel their home, to play their video games, to gamble away at the casino, to get a brand new pitching wedge, to get a new gun, new tattoo.....

Everyone likes money for whatever reason. Its just that women tend to demand that their men pay their way and provide for them because of the stereotypical gender roles. I think that if your in a relationship that its harmless to cater to that up to a point, but.... if you cant buy food anymore, shes calling you a lazy bum and that you need to get up and get another part time job after you already got three, then you better run for the hills.

If you want to be protected from the mooching type of woman in your future heres what ya do: give up your middle or high class status, dump all your extra savings into charitys. Work at a low-paying job, learn to be happy with less. Use libraries for internet access and entertainment... basically just live cheap as hell, and dont make more than you have to to keep a smile on your face. Go out, date, find someone who will accept your trashy vehicle(or bicycle) your rented apartment and you will never ever ever have to worry about her digging in your pockets.... because they will be empty 95% of the time. =P

 

Kudos. That's my goal, and you're my role model.