Hey hope you guys can give your opinion. Been married for 14 odd years to the most amazing wife. We had a few threesomes ffm in the past and even an ffffm. Before marriage had a very promiscuous lifestyle and had 3somes mmf with a very good friend of mine. Just so happens that we talk about him in bed etc and both get very excited. as much as I would love my wife to have an mmf which turns us on I have doubts about involving my best friend. She would prefer a friend one part turns me on, other says why should i grant him the privilege. Again sometimes the jealousy hits in other not as long as i can control the event. would you prefer a friend or a stranger?
I have not had a MMF yet, but I really want one with my gf and she is said we can if we find someone to do it with. I recommended some friends but she doesn't want a friend, she rather a stranger that we don't know and will never see again. Im sorta in the same vote, I mean it would be better to have someone and never see them again, but I do love the idea of tagging her with one of my good buddies, almost like yea bud, this woman is all mine kinda feeling. But everyone is different. Just gotta talk it out with your wife!
I've been involved with both and most recently with my boys work mate. My boy works one month off shore then comes home for a month break then back off he goes. The last time he went away and came back he bought a friend with him to stay with us. Our month on month off has given us the opportunity to take on new new lovers etc. so I had a feeling we'd end up in 3 way courtship for some time over this month. At first I didn't really want one of his friends, we'd only done it with some randoms we were talking to discreetly online with. However his friend was as big as my guy was is stature and he was packing a decent size down there too. Anyway we ended up having an unusual month of intimacy. Some days my bf would come to my work and take me out for lunch, other days his friend would. Anyway what I wanted to say was if the two male friends are extremely well bonded like they were, their energy feeds off one another and they both have a lot of fun, testing each other's kinks, my kinks and just how far they can go which equates to one hell of a good time for the solo female.
I think being with a friend makes your more comfortable with eachother and you might not get jealous of giving your wifes pussy up because its not just some random guy getting to hit it and leave.
We have done it with strangers and friends, We prefer friends, more relaxed and easier to talk about things
There are advantages and disadvantages in either situation. If you let a friend fuck your wife, the advantage is that he is someone you already know and have some idea of how he will handle the situation, both during and after he fucks her. The disadvantage is that he will be someone who will continue to be a part of your life later on, and that could make you all a bit uncomfortable. He will always be, in your mind, at least, "The guy that fucked my wife!" With a stranger, the advantages and disadvantages are nearly reversed. Since he is a stranger, you do not know for sure how he will treat her when they get down to fucking. But, afterward, he will be out of your lives, so there will be no awkward moments later. To be honest, I have been in both situations. I have shared my wife's pussy with a close friend, while I was there "just in case". And, I have allowed other men to fuck her that we did not know beforehand. But, these were also in somewhat "controlled" situations where they could not do anything of which she and I did not approve. And again, I was right there to see that he played by the rules. As I mentioned earlier, I do have a few close friends who give me a certain smile whenever we meet-up, and I know what they are thinking: "Remember when I fucked your wife?"
My wife and I were in an MFM threesome with a close male friend, when we were young. He was a couple years younger that me and had a lot more sexual stamina. Once he and my wife started fucking, he seemed to be able to go forever and I loved watching him pound her. (I know she loved being pounded by him as well, so it was a win for everyone!)
If it interesting that most have said friends. The wife and I have discussed this and we both feel that a stranger is more appropriate to fuck her. This way there no issues that linger afterwards. However, she did say that if a girl was to ever join us it would have to be a friend.... she can't put a finger on why she feels that way.
Since you have doubts, I voted for stranger. Ultimately it needs to be someone you are BOTH comfortable with. IF you are at an impasse, then don't do it. (Personally, I am monogamous but I find it interesting that some couples are comfortable with other relationships.) Do you realize there is a difference between MMF and MFM?
hey thanks for the replies everyone. Didn't know there was a difference, if there is then it will be an mfm. It is difficult to decide and jealousy does kick in, not too sure if that is supposed to be part of the thrill. I had never imagined sharing the wife before, but talking about a scenario really turned my wife on, at that point turned me on.
Maybe you should just fantasize about it rather than doing it. I wouldn't do anything that causes jealousy because I wouldn't know how to get rid of that emotion (if it was even possible.) I think Jealousy is a way of keeping someone you love close (ex. not sharing them sexually). A little bit of jealousy is good/healthy (in my opinion). Too much (like keeping the other person isolated from everyone else) is not healthy.
I would need a stranger. Would not want to see him again unless wife and I wanted to. Because if it's a friend and turns out to be a dud, he may keep asking for more and just makes things uncomfortable.
We've done it with both, but found the friend the best, both my hubby and myself found it a bigger turn on, he loved to see the friends cock entering my pussy, as opposed to just a stranger
I'd want a friend I know. Though yes it may be awkward for a little while, I'll be fine. Plus I am not interested in anonymous sex at all.
As a follow-up to my earlier post, I asked my wife for her opinion. If we were going to do it all over again for the first time and have an MFM threesome, would she rather it be with a close friend (the way we actually did it) or would she prefer a stranger? She said she'd do it exactly the same way as before, not only with a close friend, but with the specific friend we ended up choosing the first time around.
Started out as stranger, but soon became her friend. She liked him and he liked her. They hit it off good. We were new, and he helped us get acquainted with other couples, and a few of his friends.
I have shared my wife's pussy with both, friends and strangers. The strangers were guys we had just met, but in a situation where I did not have to worry about what they might do. The friend who fucked her was a guy that I had a lot in common with and as we both got more acquainted with him, it just seemed natural to invite him to fuck her. I will have to say that the fact he fucked my wife, and several times at that, was the one element that made our friendship stronger and longer lasting.
I enjoy the friend. Everybody knows each other and knows the rules. My black friend is my personal favorite!
