Days that have to do with love also stand out in my mind. But I can't decide which one.... Oh and I can honestly say the birth of my son was an easy, non-stressful time. Everything just went so well. Oh GOD... that scares the crap out of me actually since no two births/deliveries are the same... (positive thinking, right?)
Your body has already been through birth once so hopefully that will make the delivery easy this time too I have no idea if there is any scientific basis in that but you can't go wrong with positive thinking
There is science in that. In theory. That's how it usually is. Easier, faster. But obviously not every time and there are always complications. My biggest fear is baby being breach and being forced to have a C-section. I honestly think I'd be a nervous wreck about that.
I do have a memory that I always think of and treasure...as it was a defining moment for me. I was 4, and my parents took me to a big fair, and sitting at the pavilion with the tiki's and hula dancers and fire and grass huts in the dark night sky, I realized who I was in that instant and all things....real self awareness moment that was beautiful and in a beautiful setting.........perfect, in fact......later, I was on some ride going through tunnels of pirates or something....It was a stellar day.
I can not choose between many of them, but following three are the best 1 The day I got engaged to my wife. (Marriage day was a bit stressful day) 2 The day I got my daughter. Although she is a second child, born 4 years after my son, it was a pure joy holding her in my hands. So tiny she was! 3 The day I bought my own home. And after this- my life is a total change. Everything revolving around them.
you may think so, and a two hour drive really is no big deal, but i CAN think of many things i would not trade for it.
Beyond a doubt, the day my son entered this world was the best day and best thing that ever happened to me. Following with a close 2nd was the day I found out I was pregnant with him.
I guess it was during the long bus ride from California to Washington. We had been cramped on the bus for so long but had fallen asleep and both woke up in the dead of night at the same time to see beautiful snow falling. It was breath taking. We had finally made it out of California and were in Oregon. I was sitting next to the person I love most dearly and we got to experience that together. I had made it out alive..
There have been too many days or events in my life to simply pick even a dozen. The two most special days for me were the days my kids were born but from those so many more have happened that I have lost count. Each day holds the promise of being one of those days.
It's hard to think of a best day. I have too many memories, most are pained. I seem to remember more of the heartaches and troubles, and have to put effort into remembering the good things. But as much as I love all of my kids, I think the sweetest day I've had in my entire life is the day my youngest arrived. Two of my babies were born under the supervision of an Angel (really, my best friend's name is Angel). It took two days for me to name her. I wanted to name her Corgan but too many people gave me shit about it. So that's her middle name. Billy Corgan had super significant impact in my life. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eRb9oOhUOoE"]The Smashing Pumpkins - Siamese Dream - Today - YouTube
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y66j_BUCBMY"]American Authors - Best Day Of My Life (Official Video) - YouTube
probably the first day i realized i would never have to live with my parents, or anyone else, ever again. the day i discovered there were such things as soup lines and homeless shelters, and realized it was no longer a threat to my life, that i might loose a job. also high on my list was the day i discovered california had a railroad museum in sacramento. the day i discovered an abodond cabin within walking distance of my parents house when i was still living with them. my parents weren't bad people. not brilliant people, but not, you know, majorly harmful to the world, bad people either. i was just happier, and always still am, when i don't have to hear the sound of a human voice unless i choose to.