I've never had the real thing. How does sexual intercourse compare to masturbation (from a man's point of view)? Is it much better?
It better be unless your getting some shitty pussy, which in that case you should not be getting that pussy.
Don't forget what Woodie Allen thought on this subject. "masturbation is good because you're having sex with someone who loves you!" Better than the real thing? It actually can be on some occasions - but mostly "NO!"
Ideally,and usually. Although, it is worth mentioning that, (and probably more common with teenagers having sex the first times), while the whole sex experience generally kicks ass in the early days of having sex, you're likely going to learn that the girl(s) you're doing it with, just don't stroke it quite as good as you yourself can. As your partners get older, two things happen. A)they(and you)improve the techniques by tenfold. B)you aren't scared to say, "No no babe, like this..." Sex is like pizza. Even when its bad, its STILL pizza.
Best way I can describe it is playing a simulation vs. doing the real thing. The physical sensation you feel when you cum is more or less the same or similar given the texture of a vagina vs. your hand or whatever device you are using. Figure if you had sex with a realistic doll the physical sensation would be a very close match. However the biggest difference though is the emotional and physical euphoria you get when being with another person. That is the key difference. That is what can bring you to another level of euphoric bliss. I'm not talking about love per say but just that physical closeness when with another person.
It's different and both are good. I agree with the distinction KingWilly makes. As a exercise in having an orgasm, masturbation is really nice because you have such control and you can just focus on your physical needs. One the other hand, the touch, scent, and the other physical aspects of being with another person plus having to satisfy the needs of your partner makes sex with them really great. My wife and I have talked about this and we both view masturbating and fucking as two different but related things.
I'd rather jerk off! Preferably in front of and for a woman who enjoys watching! Vaginal sex is good, but stroking yourself and shooting a load for a woman who enjoys watching you do it is fantastic!
I went from wanking feeling good To sex with a condom felt pretty good Sex with no condom felt insane and I've never used one since
Masturbation is very good if you can't have sex (for whichever reason). Real sex is very good if you have a great connection between you and your partner. When I have sex with my gf I try to put myself in condition to see her movements and pleasure on the wardrobe doors which are reflective like a mirror. THAT IS amazing, the most amazing, exciting and arousing thing about sex with a beloved person.
There is no pussy, ass, mouth or hand that can apply just the right pressure to just the right spot at just the right time as you, yours and yourself can. Comparing masturbation to intercourse depends much on your partner and the level of excitement.
You cant go wrong with a good wank, however, as people are saying the you dont get the emotional side of it. That makes a huge difference. But we often masturbate together, and i also find that hugely satisfying aand we are still sharing a sex act and it is intimate.
