My girlfriend doesnt satisfy me ?

It's a must to find a mutual match in most cases. That's probably hard to do but some people date many before they find the one who will do what they want to do. There are plenty of fish in the sea but if she is worth it for many other reasons then you might have to settle.
Except for one who was kind of immature for his age and wasn't all that good in bed, nothing bad,,, just not active enough for me, I have usually gone with the first guy I met after an ending relationship. In that way I do get lucky because I test the waters first with talk and getting to trust them and they liked what I liked and there has been no issue that I ever knew of. Those that ended were a nine year marriage, we just drifted away from each other in time, some shorter like a year or two that ended because he or I had to move for work and my last (second hubby) hubby who passed on, heart defect.
I hope this one is my last till my end. He satisfies me immensely in every way and he knows it and he says I make him happy and his family and friends comment on his positive changes often. Yet some people find it hard to come across that one that fits them right in all ways.
Now having said that, if you do like things many don't it might be a little harder to find that one and you may have to let something slide. Sometimes reality sucks and you might find the one you love for a ton of reasons but there is one thing he or she won't do. Then you need to find something else that pleases you just about as much that he/she will do, but pushing your needs might destroy a great relationship, best if it's that important to you that you search all waters for him/her and don't stop you find the right one. You could suffer a long boring life with the wrong one.

 

I think that you should understand her too. probably she doesn't like these ideas. Communication is everything, that is what my astrologer says.

 

need a pussy upgrade

 

Some women don't like a ding dong up their poop hole. Some women don't like swallowing cuz cum has a disgusting consistency that gets stuck in your throat and smells like bleach. Some women think sexting is lame.

Like others have said, ask her what She's into.. Maybe turn her on buy bringing her flowers or giving her a massage. Chicks dig that.

 

Truth. :smilielol5:

 

Well no one should have to do anything they don't want to.

With that said, it is possible and I think okay for you to fine someone who is more sexually compatible.

But you guys have been dating for four years and that is a long time. And I'm sure you really like her and if not, love her.

But I think you two should just have a serious talk about it. And if she just really doesn't like any of those things, either just not do them with her or find someone else. (By find someone else I mean break up for her for someone else, not cheat unless you are both okay with you sleeping with someone else).

 

Has anyone heard about the coolidge effect, or sperm competition? They are some of the genetic reasons for the OP's lack of lust. Creatures are programmed to have sex with different partners to further evolution. Ten kids with the same genetic partner is less adaptive then ten kids with different partners.

 

I just don't understand how you marry someone when the sex is already bad. It's such an important component of the lifelong commitment you are creating.

 

I don't either yet so many come here claiming they didn't get what they think paid for. Ask for a warrantee people, get her mom's address so you can return the package if it's not what you thought it was,,,
Why settle in the first place? Didja think you could mold her/him? Right,,, let us know how that goes, haha.

 

Why mold a partner when there's realistic molds of pornstar vaginas? :2thumbsup:

 

Perrrrfect! Question answered! Wooohooo!

 

I don't believe the actual realism molds. I have one for some reason.. Forget the name I'll look later and like she's soooo small if that's real.