Are 20% of men banding 80% of women?

I've explained it and got on topic on page 2. It was just in good fun. You've got not much to complain

 

Explained it when????

 

Besides that it was already obvious what I was doing in the first place I explained why a bit here:

and a bit here:

 

I'm going to actually answer the original post seriously, because in it I detect a whif of male entitlement and whining, which, if left untreated and becomes malignant, can turn into a truly cancerous case of gender violence.

Stop right there. This is bullshit. You need to think hard about what you take seriously to heart and what you allow into your mind that changes your worldview and shapes who you are as a person.

Um, but you just said that 20% of men have 80% of women, or in other words, beautiful guys can pretty much have whoever they want. Right? Like you JUST said that? So the issue isn't really about WOMEN being to have sex with whoever they want (they can't), it's about the fact that attractive people have an easier time finding sexual partners. Now this is a MUCH more plausible, sensible, workable hypothesis which is confirmed in observation.

Every woman and every man is a unique individual. Every relationship is unique. You cannot point at a couple where the guy is handsome and shout to the woman "HES PROBABLY CHEATING ON YOU, I READ IT ONLINE". Men who cheat do so because they are not satisfied with their partner and do not respect them enough to work within the agreed parameters of the relationship (monogamy or bust).

I argue strongly that there are plenty of places and audiences where a man can discuss his sexual attempts with other men and even women, the internet for one.

Yeah, those harsh, devilish, whip-wielding she-devils, always torturing us computer geeks while they ride satan's cock to hell. What? Are you in any way aware of the impossible standards of beauty and sexual conduct forced upon women by men? Upon women by women? Upon men by men?

This isn't really a great argument because it hinges on what an adolescent male cares about deeply. I have news for you; the average adolescent man has literal shit for brains. In some parts of the world the #1 profession for this demographic is to wander the countryside raping and murdering with an AK47. This is a highly vulnerable, malleable, confused part of their lives, beset by all kinds of messages from music, movies, tv, the internet, politics, and peers. Yes, adolescent males are generally embarassed to admit they are virgins. This is not an argument against anything except the kinds of circles and messages that adolescent males are thrust into.

That guy who killed 6 people recently because he was a virgin at 23 and couldn't get laid and felt that women owed him sex? If he was still alive I would love to be locked in a room with him so I could tell him that

I didn't lose my virginity until I was 24 and I don't regret any of it. Now I am with a woman I love and we have incredible sex all the time.

Also a complete myth. If you are with a woman and you tell her you are a virgin, if this ruins things between you two, I have big news for you: SHE'S PROBABLY NOT A GREAT GAL TO BE WITH, AT LEAST FOR YOU.

Yes, virgin means lack of experience, but it does NOT mean you will suck in bed (forever). If you EVER get shit for being a virgin from someone, don't even waste another second with them. In case you're wondering, when you finally meet a girl who is RIGHT for you, and she finds out you are a virgin, her eyes will likely LIGHT UP with the possibility of teaching someone so fresh and new all the ways she likes to be touched. At the least she will say "don't worry we'll learn!" and give it a shot. Seriously dude, consider the personality behind some of these things you are worried about.

Would you want to be "shagged" by the type of person who will shag you because you put on a short skirt? Believe me when I tell you that you will understand much better when you finally meet a girl who is right for you. All this frustration and wanting to be loved by all girls will vanish and you will realize that you have been taught to crave the attention of all females and that you have been brainwashed into thinking you're supposed to be some macho sex machine who beds women he meets within minutes.

Those people have fucked up lives man. You wouldn't believe the personal and social problems that arise from (and cause) that kind of lifestyle.

Please don't be another entitled male asshole who thinks women are devils for not having sex with you. Stop reading cosmo magazine or wherever you are getting these hateful, bullshit stats and theories from. Run far, far away from the whole "pick up artist" culture, it is toxic and it will destroy you.

Love and sex is about people. People meeting people and having a connection and things being right and going right. If you meet someone who is pressuring you or shaming you, then they are a BAD PERSON for you, simple as that. Be yourself, work on yourself, all a woman really is looking for is a confident, warm man who is attracted to her and will tastefully communicate this to her while giving her space. No bullshit games, no "negging", none of that horseshit. Be the kind of partner you would want to date if you were a woman.

And don't ever vent these frustrations to a woman you are interested in, they are very ugly and false. Go for a jog or something, there's lots for you to do still

 

Holy crap. Kuddo's to you dude. I thought I detected something like this as well:

and therefor I took the sarcastic road but you actually took the effort to respond constructive and in all seriousness and make a real rep worthy reply :2thumbsup:

 

Haha... yeah, that's because the OP be like:

Probably too much internet porn on the side, which is why he can't get it up for anything less than, well...

 

Nope, I think I found him:

 

obviously, the other 20% of women are being fucked by the other 80% of men :2thumbsup:

 

And obviously they are all 'dogs' :cheers2:

 

The Toxic Weight of Virginity

http://www.vice.com/en_ca/read/elliot-rodger-and-the-toxic-weight-of-virginity

 

I just want to say to the OP that while statistics are important, they tend to look at details linearly, and if you read into them too much, you will miss some of the conclusions that they DON'T tell you.


Statistics are a useful and valid tool, but for a topic like this they might be making you think to narrow, rather than broadly.

Like if this study is reproduced multiple times with the same results, one might ask WHY this keeps leaving the same statistical outputs, can people change variables about themselves to change those statistics...the questions go on and on.

Also I think it's important to look at age-brackets in this study too.


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^Nice I concur with how you responded. Nice critical thinking skills and ability to keep a level head.

 

Wow bunch of assholes on HF

 

Did you realize you are the one who never said anything on topic or relevant in this thread? :biggrin:

 

This is super contradictory. Isn't your entire premise that you think women should have sex with a higher percentage of men and not just 20% of the football team?

 

No, I just have high standards

And I don't have glasses as I am genetically blessed

 

Maybe those guys are the only ones trying and the other whatever percentage is sitting around on the internet bitching. Shrugs. I don't know. Or maybe it's because they're confident and actually talk to females.

In any case, I wouldn't worry about some dumb statistic.

 

So you think non of those 20% of men wear glasses?

 

Ah but you see I've accounted for all of that. It more-or-less goes without saying. And that is the outlook I generally take anyway(since it's in my best interests)

 

It's because of free love. In the older days people settled doen sooner and chose a partner of equal attractiveness. Today women screw around before they settle down.... and since men have a higher sex drive and are less choosy as to who they sleep with, this means that men higher up the food chain will be willing to shag their level. It shouldn't take Einstein to figure out the rest.