Are 20% of men banding 80% of women?

I don't know though-assuming all that has a basis in truth (not saying it doesn't), I think Karen J was right in what she said about that's when people are younger- if those are the guys girls are meeting when they're out at clubs, bars, parties, where ever... then okay those same guys are meeting a lot of girls and not being as choosey as the girls. (or like I said, maybe it's just cause those are the guys that are out talking to girls, meeting them, etc.)---- but yea, Karen J hit the nail on the head when she mentioned when the girls get older and ready to settle down more and find a partner that is actually worth STAYING WITH, having some kind of life with. So that would mean the guys that girls chose to be with long term are getting more than who ever they met out at clubs or parties in college years.

 

That means the average adolescent female also has shit for brains, so you need to know how to come down to their level and their way of thinking in order to get laid

Yeah, but for a shag she'll do!!!

No, it's not a myth.... there's a reason why adolescents don't want to be perceived as virgins. It's not just in their imaginations. Besides, you aren't a woman anyway

 

I'm a female. And I've been with more than one guy that was a virgin when I wasn't. I didn't mind. Probably because I actually liked the people I'm referring to. Anyways, it wasn't something that bothered me.

 

Well yeah, but all that doesn't refute any of what I said. Karen J only backed up my argument if anything!

 

What's your argument? That guys are willing to be with a higher percentage or girls therefore girls can be more picky? Or is it something else?

I think if whatever percentage (and yeah, anyone can make any statistic say anything... I happen to pretty much THINK in statistics but I know you can make them say anything) of guys isn't getting the girls.... just need to learn some confidence and how to talk to girls. Maybe stop being bitter (if it applies...and to those that it applies only)...

 

Only on Thursdays. It's worse on Wednesdays - Wednesdays I bite. The other days I'm tired or chill.



Good? No?

Okay, let's try this again.

In this case I was calling it like I saw it. There's no ownership or self evaluation going on here, it's just "I have high standards, why won't I get fucked accordingly?"

A vast majority of problems stem from misconceptions and taking things for granted, rather than examining oneself realistically. I find that a fair number of guys are guilty of this without realizing it. Or admitting it. Instead they let their egos get in the way and problems escalate, whether they're conscious of the fact that it's happening or not. Of course, usually there's over-reacting from the other side if there is one involved, but most problems will start as a small thing on the male side. And then that progresses to wallowing in self pity all alone, unable and unwilling to do anything to help.

And then the verbal attacks start. So instead of taking Asmo's joke he attacked, and attacked pretty much everyone else too. Dominating and easily insulted behavior. I can be guilty of this myself, but I recognize it. I'm guessing many people don't. Hence the OP going on and on about the poor 80%, or Elliot Roger's "incel"s, who do nothing but sit there and go "woe is me" over something that can be fixed. If one is honest with oneself. Just being honest with yourself and not dwelling on problems can be the hardest, most painful thing in the world, but is the solution to so many problems.

 

There is no argument

Note how on a well thought out response, especially Mr. Writer's (I see, good sir, how you came by the user name, by the way - good work!) the OP does not even comment.

Thread should be moved to the bitch and moan section, or Pure Bull

 

Okie-doke. You seem to have it all under control.

Obs. edit: faithful might be further down the list than they say it is. How about some experience, test, muscles, and bed acumen?

 

it's sufficient to say that gender relations these days are bad and society is generally dysfunctional.

whether accurate or not, I don't think tormenting yourself with stats about who is banging who is going to help.

 

lol

 

Obviously not in every way how DO the ladies resist your charms . . .

<---- has worn glasses his whole life, gets laid all the time :biker:

 

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(You know that is gonna get some question marks)

 

well i went to a small school so we didn't have the typical jock and geek stereotypes, but when i went to my 10 year reunion, the closest equivalent to the dumb-jock-big-man-on-campus had a hot wife. and the geeky guys didn't show up, but i know for a fact that one of the two that were close to that stereotype has struggled to find work and has never had a girlfriend. no idea what happened to the other guy, which is kind of a shame because we actually were pretty good friends back in the day.

 

He appears to be banned now, I wonder what for? I'll answer this anyways

Appealing to the lowest common denominator in human relationships is going to get you in a heap of hurt and disappointment. You don't bring yourself down to the level of someone you consider stupid and trashy in order to finally "get laid", you better yourself as a person and continue being who you are, because somewhere out there is at least one person who is also being themselves and bettering who they are and when you meet SPARKS will fly. If however, you're too busy being a fake macho alpha, this amazing person is going to walk right past you like she does the other real macho alphas. That's the horrible price you pay for bringing yourself down like this . . . not to mention the cognitive and emotional dissonance caused by subverting your very being and personality in order to engage in an act of intimacy and closeness with someone who you don't respect and basically only consider a pleasing package of meat.

 

don't we all... creating popular threads does seem to have that result anymore.

 

Troll posts or not, if the discussion that sprouts produces the collective wisdom in all the respondents, I really don't see that as a waste.

I really hope the mods here don't lock this thread or delete it, it's completely full of really deep stuff.

Some motivation speaker could totally put a lecture together from all the stuff said here, go around schools and places where youth gather, and help get rid of all the ignorance and misunderstanding and sterotypes about what relationships, flirting, and love is all about.

 

You probably read that from a PUA site?

I think, more specifically, 20% of men are boning 80% of the women in "free and open circulation".

What I mean by that is, the women who are open for it after meeting in a club/bar/via a specific group eg a work group.

Basically, its some men will bone anything. Also some men have much better skills/networking etc. And women can get sex (from someone or other..!) with more ease than the less or even average adeptness males.

I'd say 15% of men are targetting maybe 40% of women, in certain age groups. Thats the principle, but the exact stats can only be estimates.